How did you find this site?
Is this the first time you have been here?
Do you come back and see what questions others have asked? Are you just a lurker who never asks questions?
If this site could be changed, how would you want it changed?

I stumpled across it really, and I'm mostly a lurker since I've not had need of your advice as of yet, but if I do you will be the first I come to.

Thanks for letting me know. Lurking is good! I lurk a couple of places myself.

Keep on lurkin'
Susan

While I was searching the ICQ white pages for people that are in my area, there YOU were. Since I love talking about sex, as well as having it all the time, I consider myself lucky. First time here so there is no critique as yet. First impression is that your site is very interesting. I'll be back again!

Glad you consider yourself lucky! I never would have imagined that someone would find me via icq.

Maybe I should have a discussion once a week via icq? The chat room here works very poorly .

Hi Susan.
I found your ste just surfing sites listed un the search sex.........

I like the content of the site and I like your frank answers.......

I am in a relationship with a woman who adores the way we have sex....SoI'll sare it with you....

First of all I'm a very small man...........about 3.5 inches erect..........This has always bothered me....But when I met this girl it didn't matter to her. As her favorite way to get off is by oral stimulation.....

So we have a long for play session followed by intecourse..... I then perform ral sex on her till she getoff a time or two........ It's great sex for us both We have found several positions he like to be in when she gets off.........

Hey susaun, well i just stumbled onto your site by lurking around. THe first time i had been to your sight was 2 days ago. I'm so glad i found it. your such a help. I feel comfortable asking all these many questions that i have. I come back to this site to see what other questions people have posted and i have asked 1 or 2 questions. your advice was a great help too. And to answer your last question, i wouldnt offer any changeing ideas. i think this site is all it needs to be. very helpful, friendly and overall wonderful. I hope you don't mind alot of questions..because i have alot to ask. ha, well, once again-thanks.
~Ashley

Ashley,
I am so glad I can be of help. PLEASE ask for answers to as many questions as you like. That's what I am here for.
Susan

Mark,
Sounds like you are a lucky guy! Enjoy!!!!
Susan

Susan,
I found you when I went into google search and typed in Why can't I have an orgasim. And there you were. You are the best thing that I have found on the net. I check for new questions each day. I have responded to one that was the same question as mine. It is nice having someone to talk to that does not critisize you because they think that your problem is stupid.

Thanks alot
Amy

you had been on a disability disscussion board and your answers were friendly clear and helpful that it is obvious in your way of writing that you are professional and this is your area of expertise! thankyou for such a great site, I think it also works well because questions are always quickly responded to and this is also reassuring.

Amy,
That was exactly why I started this site - I get so angry sometimes when I read the answers I see on some sites. Soem of the people who give advice are so mean! No body teaches us how to have sex - how are we supposed to know all this stuff without help?
Susan

well I was talking to my buddy and he sent me a pick and it was a clip of the sight it was a pink box that said "Ice cubes up my butt" and i laughed my "butt" off at it i could tell right off the bat that it was a wuestion for a sex forum but it was the fatc it was so spontenous. So I am always on qesut to learn more about everything i can especaillly sex so naturally i have always been drawn to sex forums such as jackinwolrd.com and allaboutsex.org. I punched the title of that homourous post up and heres you site. So i have been looking around for the last 30 mins and i can say i like what i see and will probably be hanging around here. Oh and a quick question , ho old is this site?

Well I am glad you thought the ice bit was funny - I must admit it was one of my most memorable posts.

The site has gone thru a lot of changes, but it started in 1999 as a free site without a website attached. Then I added a free 3 page site about a year later. Slowly I learned to design we pages rather than use pre-canned designs. About 3 years ago I started to create web pages and got my own domain name.

Have you checked out the accompanying web site?????'


Glad to have you here!

Susan

Hi Susan, I saw your show once, I believe it was your show, or maybe it was another Susan? So I needed advice once and wanted to find the show or something and did a search on the web and found this site. It was a little difficult because a tone of porn sites came up, too. But I had to write a couple times because I have sooo many questions. Once I knew some info for another girl about the bikkin area that you couldn't answer and I gave my suggestions. Hopefully they worked for her. But I check the site back regulary because I like to read other peoples' questions and responses because they help me aswell.
That's about all I have, I really enjoy your site, I feel comfortable writing in and it has really helped me feel better about my situation because I do not always like to ask my girl friends. Thanks so much! Andrea

Andrea,

Thanks for writing! I wish I had a TV show, but I don't. I wouldn't mind being a modern Dr. Ruth. Right now the only way people get in touch with me is through the web page.

What TV show is it that you have watched??? (Susan Block - maybe???)

Susan

I am not sure, my friends and I have mentioned it before and thought it was a Dr. Susan. Maybe not, so that was what I was looking for when I did a search. The show was nice, there were call ins and this woman answered all types of questions, just like your web only on TV. But I'm glad this is available, it is much more convenient!

Andrea,

Sounds like it might be Dr. Susan Block/ Suzi Block. She has an really big web site, but it is not legal for minors to view because it has some pretty graphic stuff on it - so I won't post the link. One thing to know about Dr. Block - she is not a medical doctor ( I am not either) and she got her doctoral degree in psychology.

If you want to know why I think I have the credentials to have this site and answer your questions - go to http://www.sexsupport.org and click on the links for education.

Keep in touch!
Susan

I found your site from a google search. I mostly lurk, exept for posting once. This is one of the best sites
on this subject I have found so far!

Thank you! I'm glad you like it. Lurkers are important too!
Anything missing that you wish was here????

Susan

I was trying to find answer to my questions and thank god I found you. You don't judge me the way others would. Thanks!
Ruthy

Ruthy,

You are exactly the kind of person this site was designed for. I am glad you are here!

Susan

I believe I found this site through a link on a disability site- can't recall which one though!
I've noticed the age range here is vast, and I love it- goes to show all us "old people" arent NO FUN, and all today's "youth" aren't irresponsible and thoughtless about themselves and/or their partners.
I like your honesty and straight forward answers, especially to the younger crowd. Half answers and vagueness won't protect anybody- you tell it how it is, both good and bad.
I tend to make my daughter (14) cringe with the bluntness of the answers she and her friends get from me, I want you to know I've introduced several to this site, NOT to pass the buck, but I fear there's more that they're NOT asking sometimes. Having this site available is a fabulous resource for those teens that don't want to hear "Let's go talk to my mom". I like your answers and insight and the direct way you address their questions in particular -and I'm enjoying learning alot myself!
Personally I wouldn't change a thing, other than that chat thing that dosen't work so well. That's not YOUR fault though! I do also use the other parts of the site and visit many links through here. I wonder how many other visitors know how much more is here, besides this forum?
Thanks Susan for a great resource and educational diversion!
Kittyjo

I love your website! I remember I just stumbled across it when asking a question at one of those search engines, what a hard way to find information! I come back all the time looking at questions and I have some of my own questions to ask, that I will be posting soon, I feel so comfortable about it here, since everyone is here for the same reason... To gain more information about sex, and things to do with it.
*_Kelsey_*

*_Kelsey_*

Kelsey,

I am so glad you found the site and I hope you keep reading and especially keep posting - you have lots of good things to say!!!!!

Susan

i was just looking for a site to see what i was doing wrong and why i couldnt have an orgasim and i found it, i really love how fast you write back and how informative you are. thanks for being here and making it free!

Can we have spell check?
It makes me look so much smarter.

It would make me look smarter too - you guys wouldn't know I have dyslexia.

The service that does this forum doesn't have a spellchecker as part of it, but I'll look into it for you!

Susan

I flashed over something about avatars, and wondered if there was some sort of profile I should fill out or edit, but I don't find anything.
Did I miss it. or is this another case of my learning curve looking like a Nebraska corn field.
Is the chat Mac friendly?

M

How did you find this site? BROWSING NETWORK 54 FOR RELATIONSHIP ISSUES
Is this the first time you have been here? NO
Do you come back and see what questions others have asked? YES
Are you just a lurker who never asks questions?I GIVE ANSWERS
If this site could be changed, how would you want it changed?SO FAR SO GOOD

M
Nah no profiles- I can't people get to fill out much of anything related to this site except to ask questions. ( You are one of the exceptions my Mr. Answer Man - Thank you!)

You could fill out the oral sex survey. I delete the answers every week because after 50 people answer it I have to pay - but I will share the results I get eventually.

Yes- everything here is MAC friendly- wouldn't have it any other way. ( But I am not so sure if it is PC friendly!)

Thanks for being here!
Susan

I found this site a few weeks ago while googling for information about birth control, and have been lurking since. :)

ive seen the show a few times, and when i had a question i was a bit nervous about calling, so i thought there might be some other way to contact you. so i googled and found this. i was surprised at how easy it was to post and how quickly i got a response. i also appreciate others' questions, as they bring up topics i havent even thought of before, and answer questions i didnt know i had. overall its been very helpful and a lot easier (for me, at least) than talking to my parents or someone. i know that sounds kindof sad, but im shy and i embarrass easily. my hands wouldnt stop shaking as i typed my first question the other day. so anywho, i just want to say im glad i found this site and im very pleased with the content and the way it works. thank you again, susan and everybody.

Gabby,

The show you saw was probably the Susie Block Show- and that isn't me. She does have a site - but it has very adult content. And no free advice ( but you can pay for advice!)

I'm glad you like it and I hope you stick around!
Susan

Hi Susan

I guess that many of us spend spare trime trying to advice given to others that might be good for us too ...

So I lurk here and there and I read and take in ...

I have made friends around the net and quite often they have been other people looking for help and advice that start talking to someone looking for the same ...

I've even met some of them ...

I shall go for another lurk now ... maybe catch you later :o)

Bye for now ...

Jon x

I needed to find someone who would give me good advice. YOu did that and made me feel much more comfortable right away.
THANK YOU!!!!!!

Heidi,

Your welcome! That's what I'm here for!

Susan

well hey, im glad i found THIS one... adult content sounds kindof... well gross. :-P thats kindof funny theres two susans doing this kind of thing. well newaz... thanx! -gabrielle

hi susan:
i think you're doing wonderful work with this site - specially the non-judgemental, supportive and yet no-nonsense style! just one suggestion however: you could tone down the briskness just a bit and ease up in your advice - so that you sound more like "one of the bunch" instead of "agony aunt".
this was not meant to offend but just to pass on some feedback.
do count on me to help out in whatever way i can - i love your cause and relate totally.
~saint

Here for the first time tonight. It's a great site! Been looking for this for a while now. Will definately come back more often and ask some questions as well.

Good luck with the site. I´m sure it´s a great help to a lot of people.

Thanks Tim- will keep an eye out for you!

I stumbled across this site as I was looking for a site that I could learn from. I had been visiting another forum in the 54 realm that became less informative and more political so here I am.
As you know I have posted my own quesions as well as posting on others.
I am very happy to admit that I don't know everything , but what I do know I like to share if and when it is appropriate.

Peter - yes thanks for your input on questions. Always good to get another viewpoint - especially a male one.
Susan

I found this site on a google.com search on forums.
But basically the way I see it.....
We must remember that it was by sex that each of us got here..why not talk about it? Sex can be a loving magic moment to surpass anything or it can cause lots of problems. Many youngsters are just too embarassed to communicate about sex with their parents, their faces might get red, or they are afraid that their parents might think their questions are stupid. Other times the parents are concerned that youngsters will ask questions, the answers of which they are embarassed to say, they do not know. Parents tend to try to bring up their kids using antiquated rules of the past because it's all they know..those rules may go back as far as 100 years. Many of todays kids are pretty smart when it comes to sex, being more open than in the past, but they still do not fear stds or HIV the way that they should; the HIV situation is not getting any better. A dose of Herpes can be very annoying and other minor infections are unpleasant.
All active couples of both genders need to practice safe sex with a degree of responsibility for what could happen should they make a mistake.
Along you come with a unique site that fills a huge void for people of varying ages. You dispense real life information not easily attainable ANYWHERE. You get it out on the table and discuss it. Participants can enjoy keeping their questions and answers private and one plus is that you don't surprise anyone with E-mail that could be viewed by someone sharing a screen name with a household member.
You allow others to respond with their views.
And as I said before,congratulations on a great site...I think it's good as is.

I put a question in a search engine and found your site. I love it! Your answers are clear, honest and no one feels stupid for asking necessary questions. I am a healthcare professional and have worked many years in GYN and Urology. I still can learn from this site, and still hear new...strange things. Thanks for a great and honest site!!!

Search engines are wonderful things aren't they? Thanks for the kudos, especially from a health professional. I learn a lot from doing the site too - kids today do stuff I never thought of at their age. But I must say I really do worry about all the dumb risks they take. If I could do just one thing with this site it would be to get people to understand the level of risk they take when they have unprotected sex.

Susan

I was lurking around, having nothing to do. I found this web site and was wondering what it's all about. Especially when it cums to SEX. My favotite pass-time.

Well I think your running a great web site here. Theres a lot of questions on sex that people dont know, including myself and have no one to ask, or are to embarrissed to ask. I always want to know how the other side feels like when it comes to sucking, anal, size of penis, Etc.

******KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK******

Thanks John - I hope to keep doing it for a very long time.
Susan

found it easy enough content is excelent and info perfect with great links and follow ups and support givin by yourself is unpresadented, although i would say a bit better lay out on the frount page maybe a info bar with all links down on the left hand side, making it all accessable in one page

Great idea - only it can't be done - or if it can be I don't know how. You get choices for layouts - and there is no choice for a sidebar. You can have a footer and a header and that is it.

If anyone knows any different - I'd love to know how to do it!
Susan

Hey Susan,

Two days ago i was just thinking i was going to redo your front page for you and e-mail it to you to see if you like the change =) b/c yeah it kinda hectic!

If i have some time this week do you want me to try?

Let me know!

Mike

No promises that I wil like it- but if you're game - I am. I made soem changes this weekend - like it any better?

Susan

Yes it does look a better! Well i'll see what i can do, i don't know if can make it much better but meh! if i have some time this week i'll give it a shot and let you know...and if you dont' like it no worries!

Mike

Thanks Mike ---if you know html you are bound to do better than me.

Susan

Hey,

I'm pretty much done redesigning the front page now!

How do you want me to show it to you or send? All i would need to send is the main html file. All the other pics you already have on your server.

Later!

Mike

Mike
You can send it to susan@sexsupport.org
Susan

Hey Susan, did you get the html file? You never responded via e-mail so i'm not sure if it went through or not!

Mike

Yes, I have just been workinng from the minute I wake up til I go to bed - taking a break just to answer questions here. I wil get to it after I am done working on Friday.

Susan

Hey Susan,

Yeah i've noticed that you've been busy the last few days! What do you do for a living? And my friend wants to know if you're the same Sue from tv...i told him i didn't think so b/c i seem to remember someone else asking that a while ago.

Mike

Mike,

You can see my complete resume on my main web page. But I work as an American with Disabilities Act Coordinator for two different organizations. Both are part time - but this week both are full-time.

No, I wish I was one of the two people I am mistaken for---Sue of Canadian TV or Suzie of cable porn. I just do what I do here - except for the occasional academic conference where I present.

Susan

I found this site by doing a forum search on Network54. I typed sex into the search box I believe. I think this is one of the best sites for people who need advise on sexual matters. The best part about this site is that it is moderated. I used to post messages on a cable forum in network54, but it has no moderator so people just call eachother fags all day long. Keep up the good work Susan!

I found your site by typing in masturbation forums and there you were.

I found this site as I was flipping thru pages on google and I've only been here for 3 days or so. Still, I'm sure you can be of help from what other people on this post have said!!

I think this site is really great.
Susan u help a really lot of people,clay too.
thats all i gotta say
i`ll keep coming in .

yours truely
JakŁ

Thank you for giving me some credit Jake. It feels good being appreciated. Keep up the good posts. Keep on answering our questions Susan.