Ok, if I am going to be eaten out, what do i need to know? Shaven? i have no idea

Pee before you start,have a quick wash, be sure to rinse well.
No need to shave.
Lay back, relax , and enjoy.

If you are bigger - it may be helpful to sit your bottom on a plastic covered pillow to raise yourself up.

Some women pee or fart a little bit when they are being eaten - don'tworry about it -lots of women do.

The most important thing you need to know before your man gives you oral sex is that some don't like performing oral on woman because most women do not know how to prepare themselves. Men want to be clean and smell good I don't mean spray perfume on your vagina this will not taste very good. After washing real good preferrably take a shower. Rub (if you want to) some nice smelling lotion on your inner thighs and hips and legs this will be a turn on for him. If he's not hitting the right spot you need to teach him. As far as shaving you don't need to. Some women will trim the hair down or even shave it completely or just a strip. Some men are turned on by this. Talk to him and ask him.

And what do you need to know about this if you're a guy?

Women like this a lot?

How should it be done?

How does a guy broach the topic and successfully offer that?

Is it helpful if you have a really long tongue? (I do)

What else should guys know?

Just curious,

Nick

Isn't anybody going to help Nick out on this one?????? I thought one of you guys would jump in--I know there are a few experts out there!!!!!!!

Susan

Some girls like gettin eaten out, some girls don't. Personally I LOVE IT! My suggestion I have for you, is to go to some websites and read up on how to, thats what my boyfriend did and now he rocks at it. It explains to you that there is more to it than "licking" so to speak, a girl "area". There are other things you have to stimulate, their clit. and many girl like to be fingered at the same time. To succesfully offer it? Well I would just be straight up with it to the girl, don't just do it, the girl may not be comfortable with it, its deffinately something, like sex, that needs to be talked about. When my boyfriend first went to, I wouldnt let him, he was soooo dissapointed. So we finally talked about... The first times he didn't I didnt like it, I didnt even enjoy it. I wasn't relaxed, I was nervous, and all i was worried about is that I thought he didn't enjoy doing it, so I couldn't be comfortable. So my boyfriend finally was like Kelsey, the reason I'm doing it, is for you! I don't want to do something for you, that you don't enjoy. I wouldn't do it, if I didn't want to, and if I didn't enjoy it myself. He also asked me do I not like giving him head, and I was like no i like to, giving him pleasure is something I enjoy doing. Tasting bad is something I worried about too, he was like personally I like the taste. Then he said would you give me head if the "taste" bothered you, and I said nope, it doesn't bother me. So that story is just telling you to make sure the girl can enjoy it before you do it, because now I love it, to th point where I am asking him to instead of cringing at it. It is not helpful if a guy has a really long tongue, it doesn't make much of a difference, as far as I know of course. It's not like you stick your tongue in their vagina it's more around it, you would have to read a little about it, and yes some guys do stick their tongue's in it, when my boyfriend does, it's not the best part as far as I'm concerned, but everything he does down there feels good! ;) Well goodluck with that, and let me know if you have any more questions I can answer. *_Kelsey_*

Ok -- here's some basic pointers.

1) Going down on a girl is like making love in general -- start with foreplay and teasing, allow time for her to relax and begin to get excited. You can tell she is starting to enjoy it from the way she will start to move her pelvis and if she begins to get wet or wetter.

2) Tease with kisses to the clit, breathing on the clit, licking and gentle swirling of your tongue around the clit.

3) At the same time, use your hands to caress her, caress her breasts, but also touch her thighs and the rest of her skin.

4) Once she is excited (becomes very wet, moans, and grinds her pelvis), move to repeated constant licking and swirling of your tongue. (girls, check me on this) Like a man, once she is excited, she will need steady stimulation to reach climax.

5) Bonus points -- take the clit into your mouth and suck on it. For some women this can almost be too much stimulation and you may have to back off. But this move has proved a winner in my experience.

6) During teasing, try an occasional kiss to backside of her knees. While she is excited, sometimes this area can be sensative and she will respond well to a wet kiss or lick there.

7) Again -- start with teasing and allow time for her to warm up -- and when trying to bring her to climax -- short rapid repeating licking, swirling on and around the clit.

8) If your jaw hurts afterwards, this is normal. Like any new exercise, you'll get better and stronger with practice.

9) To be really good at this, you must practice enough so you can "read" her signals -- when to speed up, when to slow down, when she is close, when to give her (and you) a break to rest from the stimulation before starting again.

Good luck! -- and bring mouth wash!

Bob,

Why mouth wash? I love the rest of your post though.

Susan

Basically so that afterwards you can kiss her without smelling or tasting like her vigina. For some, I can see that this smell can be exciting and desirable. And if it is OK with the woman, it is ok with me.

But my personal preference is to freshen my breath, even if everything down there is "clean" and free from bad odors. Likewise, I prefer that a women use mouthwash or brush her teeth after performing oral on me, before giving me a kiss. It is not so much about hygiene as it is about removing any thought of tasting myself. Again, this is a matter of personal choice.

Also, (and this is the real reason) do you really want to go home to your folks or see your friends later with sex breath?

Bob,

Well I can appreciate your viewpoint. My lover actually relishes still having the smell/taste of me on him when we go out or he leaves me. I cannot imagine him or me using mouthwash to disguise the scent/taste. Perhaps that is one of the benefits of being a full-fledged adult where being sexual doesn't have to hidden.

Susan

would you be able to get your boyfreind to share the web sites. i think alot of us males would like to know thanks

My man loves to carry my smell on him as long as he can. We would never think of jumping up and brushing our teeth after going down on each other. Likewise, he has no problem kissing me after I've given him a blow job. I think that either of us would be very hurt/offended if the other felt repulsed by the other's smells and juices.

I fully agree with Bob on the mouthwash suggestion. If you are going to give oral sex then it is hygenic to wash your mouth out with mouthwash afterwards. Do you really want all that cum and germs in there? As for Rose, you mentioned that if your boyfriend or you wash your mouth out you would be offended. If you guys are that insecure about your relationship then you should just break up now. Do you really enjoy the taste of cum in your mouth?

Clay,

There is nothing unhygenic about ejacalulation - male or female, lubrication, or anything involved in sex- unless you have a disease.

If somebody dislikes the taste of their partner than I suppose mouthwash is an OK idea- but otherwise there is no reason for it. Body semallsand tastes are a part of sex - and I for one want to exprience them as long as I can.

Susan

umm what do mean? in sex ed i was taught that a guys cum is mostly sugar and a girls cum is similar to watermelon juice. was my sex ed teacher a big fat liar?

Well your sex ed teacher is not a liar- just not well-informed.

Ejaculation from orgasm can taste very different in different people. It depends on diet, what drugs ( prescription or otherwise) they take, how healthy they are, how much stress they are under, and if they are male or female. Different ejaculations taste different. If a guy has not ejaculated in 3 days - his ejaculate wil taste different than if itwas his third ejaculation in 24 hours. A women's ejaculation wil taste different depending on what part of her body is orgasming.

I have been told by more than one source that I taste like a Margarita.

Most men I have known do not taste sweet- most taste like a very tart/bitter sweet and sour sauce.

Susan

Clay,


You are such an obvious message board troll. I just came to this site after it was linked from somewhere else, and all you do is harass the people on here. I agree a lot of this material is kind of humorous, but you got it down to a science when it comes to being a thorn in the side of this forum.

How have you not been kicked off yet?? Curious ...

Maybe people are just gluttons for punishment??

If a woman spends the time I am going down on her pissing and farting I am never going down there again. Seriously it is not natural to have urinary incontinence, if you do something is wrong.

Annonymous

Haven't been with many women I guess? Vaginal farts cannot be helped and are ordorless and tasteless - so what is the worry? Urinary incontinence isn't normal, but peeing during sex is as is ejaculation. Your loss my friend!

Susan

No one seems to have gotten back on the request made earlier for sites, so I thought I'd oblige - although the instructions given so far in this thread have been great:

- A fairly graphic but therefore helpful guide to eating a girl out. EXCELLENT advice in there boys, especially the stuff about making her feel beautiful and spending time with her afterwards.
http://www2.freedomacres.com/library/cunnilingushow2.html

- For the girls, so you don't feel left out, this is a blow job guide by the same person. I read this (conveniently) shortly before giving head for the first time, and while these are difficult things to give written instructions for, this gave me a good groundwork and made me much less nervous.
http://www2.freedomacres.com/library/blowjobhow2.html

Most importantly, though, practise makes perfect. Good luck!