use your fingers
use the water from the tub faucet
use the jets from a hot tub
use the shower massage hose
use a dildo
use a vibrator (electric or battery)
use a back massager ( electric or battery)
use ben wa balls
use a clit massager
use a terry cloth towel
use vegetables
use candles
use curcular motions
use feather touch motions
rub hard and fast
slide your fingers back and forth
push your fingers in and out
use lubrication
use a friend to help
use a mirror to watch
listen to music
look at listen to videos
look at magazines
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how to materbate
March 21 2004, 10:48 PM
i was wondering if u could help me i want to masterbate when i feel like i need to but cant b.c when i try it does not give pleasure wat are ways to masterbate like who do i do it?
There are hundreds of ways to masturbate. The message you responded to had lots of ideas. But it sounds to me like the problem is in your head. Masturbation is a completely healthy wonderful way to make yourself feel good. If it doesn't make you feel good -than don't do it. When the time is right you'll know what to do and want to do.
Just like no one should feel pressure to have sex - no one should feel pressure to masturbate. Some women never masturbate or do so very very little. Personally I do it a lot - but I really only started to do it for orgasm when I was in my 20s. Take the pressure off and just enjoy.