Hi Iam 18 years old and have been sexually active with my b/friend for about six months now. I can orgasim through non penetration (rubbing of the clit), but not when having sex.... why is this? and is there anything I can do about it? thanx

Amy,

Join the majority of women. Very few women have orgasms from vaginal penetration. If you do it is mostly because of g-spot stimulation. The best way to get your g-spot stimulated through vaginal sex is doggie style or women on top --but even these postions won't always do the trick.

I'd suggest you experiment with positions and have fun, but don't be disappointed if nothing happens. Be glad you are having them the way way you are!

Susan

okay, if you do it with girl on top, should i be closest to his body or farther away like i am sitting up for best stimulation?

The best thing to do is experiment. Try it both ways. Women's g-spots are positioned slightly differently in different women - so what feels best to me might not feel best to you.

Susan

i wanted to know do you have to use a condom when having sex for the first time and is it painful because im only 15 & me and my boyfriend fool around like i give him head and stuff but im scared if not using a condom the 1st time that ii will get pregant or catch something>

Kelly,

I thought you were reading so well and then you ask this!

Yes, you can get pregnant the very first time you have sex. Why would the first time be any different? Yes you need to use a condom the first time and every time.

Sex the first time almost always hurts. The younger you are the more likely it is to hurt. ( And you are young.) It usually hurts when your hymen is torn. It usually hurts the first time a penis goes inside you. Lots of lubrication helps. Lots of foreplay helps. But usually it still hurts.

Think hard before you lose your virginity. You can only do it once. Be sure this is the guy you want to do it with. Will he make you feel wonderful even if you decide it hurts to much and you want to stop? Will he still make you feel wonderful as you are bleeding all over the sheets? Is this the person you want to remember for the rest of your life - because you will. The first person you have sex with you always remember- whether it is good or bad--so PLEASSE be sure this is the right guy. AND use condoms!!!!!

Susan

haveing sex is something you should hold out on if you do have sex yes baby wear a comdem it can sve your life for one you don't need kids and for 2 if your sucking his dick i sure hope he's eatting that pussy.