Me and my crush who I will not mention a name, we r going 2 6flags on a band trip and he wants 2 finger me and stuff.. This would be great even though we are 13 =./. also we are thinking about having sex. I am soo confused though HELP!!!!!!!!!
I'll be honest with you---it doesn't sound like you are ready. Sex can be scary and confusing - but if "fingering and stuff" scares you--you are not ready to go any further.
Have you kissed? Have you done any touching at all? Have you discussed birth control? Have you discussed what you BOTH would do if you got pregnant?
You might think - why do we need to discuss birth control or pregnancy? ANYTIME you have sex with genital contact you risk pregnancy.
For now stick with what feels safe and fun. You have plenty of time to get to the scary stuff when it feels less scary.
Write me again and tell me what you decided to do!
Take care!!!
Susan
Kirstin (no login)
Re: Sex
October 14 2005, 4:20 PM
can i just say something i am 13 an i ave already been fingered and things but i was scared at fist coz a didnt know wot i was doing but now we r doing this quite often dont let fears get in the road of anything if u want it
If it is just fear from inexperience - I agree. But if it is fear because you aren't sure you really want otdo it- then you need to listen to your gut.