I was wondering if some guys can have more precome than others.
Also, this guy I am sort of seeing is really big. It makes me nervous if we ever decide to go further. Can he stretch me out? So that if I were to be with anyone who is smaller that it wouldn't be as pleasurable for me? Just curious! Thanks! Ali
Some men have tiny amount of pre-ejaculatory fluid (precum/precome) and others guys have lots. Some guys start for almost no reason and for other guys it takes awhile to start. All of this is OK.
I'm going to assume you are a woman. The vagina is actually like an empty room inside your body - and the walls are really really close together. But if something is forced inside the room -- or the woman receives sexual stimulation (foreplay) -- the walls start to move apart. When a baby is born the walls move ALOT.
As soon as whatever is inside the woman's vagina comes out the walls of the vagina start to go back together again. After a few minutes ( or in the case of having a baby a few hours) the walls are exactly the same as they were before.
Now there is a BIG exception to this. If a woman is actually a girl and her body is not fully developed, or she is raped and her body has no time for the walls to move apart or the baby has a really big head - the walls of the vagina might not every go back together exactly like they were before.
So as long as when you have sex you take lots of time with foreplay, and you use extra lubrication you should have no problem.