i dont really know what to say to her but it dont really matter yet because i know it will but alright i have fingered her like 3 or 4 times well it usually not a really long time about 20 mins or so but when i get dont my fingers smell like raw fish really stinky smell and at the moment it dont matter but i wouldnt be able to go down on her like that bc its nasty and i would just like to know how to tell her or what she needs to do ohh but one time it didnt smell bad but i really need help thanx
This could be one of four things - and I have no idea which one it is.
#1 When women ovulate they smell and taste different. Right after they menstruate/have their periods they do too. It could be that the time you did it the first few times was a different time of her month.
#2 It could be she has an infection. If she has an infection it might be that you have a bit of yellow or white or green on your fingers. Do either of you have sex with other people? Any kind of sex at all? She could have an infection that does not come from having sex.
#3 She could be taking some sort of medication. Some medications can change the smell of the whole body. Some antibiotics do that.
#4 She could be just maturing/ getting older. When women get older the smell of them changes. Women need to wash more. The smell of them gets more mature. You might just not be used tothe smell of an adult woman.
If she is smelling as badly as you think she is - she probably knows it already. She is probably hoping you do not notice.
If you are having a sexual relationship where the two of you are getting intimate enough to put your fingers inside her you should be able to talk about this. It will be uncomfortable - but if you care about her - you need to have this talk.
Just be sure she knows how much you care about her and that you are telling this to her not to make her feel bad, but to help her.