Hey its me again I have alot of stuff to ask but im goign to go lil easy tonight. but anyways i was wondering when i was frist having sex this stuff came out and i dont know what it was and how come it dosent do it any more? Another thing i was wondering can you us baby oil to keep wet when were having sex and if not what can i use?

The first time you had sex you more than likely had an intact hymen. That is a piece of very thin skin that covers most of the entrance to your vagina. So that is probably what you saw that came out. If that is what it was- it won't happen again.

Baby oil (veegtable oil, hand lotion, hair creme rinse,massage oil, petroleum jelly) is not a very good lubrication. It should NEVER be used with condoms, diaphraphm, or cervical caps. It does not belong inside a woman's vagina. It is very difficult to get rid of and can make a woman more prone to getting infections. It is OK for men to use with other men or for male masturbation ONLY.

Water-based lubes are the cheapest choice (Eros, Wet, Astroglide, Slippery Stuff, Juice)j. Some come in flavors (Juice, Lube-a-licious). Condoms can be lubricated or unlubricated - and the lubrication can contain the spermicide nonoxynol-9. My favorite - which is more expensive - but you need to use a lot less - it lasts longer - and it works better is a silicon lubrication. Right now 3 companies make it--and my favorite is Eros. (You can buy lubrication off my website if you GOTO http://www.sexsupport.org/toys.html )

Lubrication is the one best thing you can do for yourself when you have sex!
Susan