i have a problem..well its not really mine its my boyfriends...he can not get an erection and when he does it does not even last long enough for him to get inside of me...now he is only 25 years old but he is on some medications so im wondering if that is it or not...he keeps on telling me it is because he is nervous but i dont know im going crazy it has been soo long since i had sex..now one more question when you use a cock ring do u put it on before or after he is erect???? and would one of those help at all??
Thanx
nikki
Absolutely the medications he is taking could be causing his erection problems. Has he talked to his doctor?
He could either ask his doctor to change his medications and see if they do the same things.
He could also ask his doctor about using Viagra. Viagra is a terrific drug that can help a lot of men who have trouble with erections. There is no shame in needing Viagra. My lover uses it - and I LOVE the stuff.
A cock ring could help. It needs to be put on after he gets a erection . It keeps the blood that has flowed into the penis shaft stay there.
Tell your boyfriend to talk to his doctor - a doctor can help if they know there is a problem.
hey nikki:
i'm glad YOU took the initiative to discuss this problem becuz it seems your BF just wants to avoid confronting it and hopes it will go away on its own!
please see a doctor - this calls for medical advice and not simple counseling. so take the initiative AGAIN and rush him to a helpful medic and bring back the RISE in your sex life!
~saint