i have started having sex a few months ago. About once monthly with my boyfriend. When we have sex though it takes a while to keep his penis in with out it slipping out. When we are having sex though i hardly feel anything. Yes my boyfriend does have an average size 6 1/2 inches , but i just do not feel any pleasure. He feels alot. Help! whats wrong?
Nothing is wrong. For lots of women vaginal sex just doesn't feel like much at all. The vagina wasn't really designed for sex - it was designed to make babies. The clitoris and the gspot are areas of the woman's body created for pleasure.
You need to explore sexual positions that allow his penis to connect with your gspot and / or get involved in more attention to your clitoris. If you are having sex in the traditional man on top of woman (missionary -style) the likelihood of your feeling anything is next to impossible.
We weren't only put on this earth to PRO~create.If we are then why does a WOMAN have a CLIT? Whats that for unless women wasn't build for SEX..I think that women were built the way they were to give man lotsof PLEASURe and Man to give woman lots of pleasure.If woman wasn't build for pleasure then she sure doesn't need her clit for anything.Larry
Larry,
You're not disagreeing with me - you are agreeing with me. The vagina was created for procreation. Part of procreation is having sex - so sex needs to be reasonably pleasurable or people wouldn't do it. But the deeper two thirds of the vagina has to be pretty insignificant when it comes to pleasure - because the same nerves that cause pleasure also cause pain. Childbirth is painful - but it would be even more so if women weren't blessed with vaginas that don't feel much.
But the clitoris is another story. The clitoris has absolutely no function at all - except pleasure. There are more nerve endings (and they cause pleasure) in a clitoris than all of a man's body put together.
I found an article online I htink you should read Larry----http://blogs.salon.com/0002153/stories/2003/03/15/discomfort.html
Hi, DD:
Forget what part was meant for what purpose. The purpose of sex is mainly pleasure nowadays (I don't think many people in the civilized world do it purely for procreation). If vaginal sex is no fun for you, hey don't worry - share this with your boyfriend and explore other ways of having fun together. I'm sure he will find it as turning-on and exciting as you will - half the pleasure is the process itself - and experimenting and finding out new ways can almost be like foreplay for both of you.
So go right ahead and open up your sex life - a wide world of possibilities awaits!
saint