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Do woman like to see guys cum ?????

February 26 2004 at 7:54 PM
Big John  (no login)

 
It just entered my mind after Katie asked about giving "Hand Jobs" Do you woman enjoy seeing a man spurt ? either when doing it by hand or oral ???

In my expierence I think they get some thing from it. BUT WHAT ????????.

 
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Re: Do woman like to see guys cum ?????

February 26 2004, 8:24 PM 

John,

Simple. Evidence.

Susan

 
 
Big John
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Re: Do woman like to see guys cum ?????

February 27 2004, 6:47 AM 

Is that all you have to say ????? """EVIDENCE"""
That you did what you had to do ???. Get his rocks off ???.
Must be more then that. JMO

 
 

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Re: Re: Do woman like to see guys cum ?????

February 27 2004, 11:07 AM 

Sorry to disappoint you. I guess the other thing might be anticipation- because I know that for at least the next hour all the attention will be on me again.

 
 
Big John
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Re: Re: Do woman like to see guys cum ?????

February 27 2004, 12:24 PM 

Then Susan, how come a lot of woman can get an orgasm just buy giving thier S/O a BJ ????? Maybe with a little playing around ?????.

 
 
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I think that most women find it absolutely disgusting!!!!!

February 27 2004, 7:11 PM 

I don't think that most women enjoy seeing a man when he cums.

 
 

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Re: Re: Re: Do woman like to see guys cum ?????

February 27 2004, 9:50 PM 

John,

Maybe a lot of faking. I don't know a single woman who has an orgasm from watching a man ejaculate. It might turn her on- but orgasm - no.

Susan

 
 
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Significance of an orgasm to a woman

March 4 2004, 11:18 AM 

I would say a women enjoys the way a man cums in not a real sexual way. It's more of like satisfaction of a job well done and to know that they can make their man feel satisfied. One fundamental rule is that man would always be more of a sexual creature than an emotional one. Sex is perhaps too important to us whereas for a female emotional love and affection is equal if not more important.

 
 

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Re: Significance of an orgasm to a woman

March 4 2004, 12:55 PM 

I absolutely agree with you for the most part.

In another post I mentioned the recent Viagra studies that have now been abandoned. They were trying to demonstrate that Viagra works for women. They found it works for women who were once interested in sex but stopped - but was not helpful to women who have never been interested in sex.

Viagra doesn't make women excited ( or men) it only helps with creating bodily responses to excitement. Guys for the most part have no problem getting excited- they see something and they get excited -maybe even orgasm - but for women it is much more emotional. If there is no emotional connection - there is no orgasm.

Now there are women who claim otherwise. Some women do get excited watching porn, seeing men ejaculate and such - but the reality is that they are few and far between.

Susan

 
 
Big John
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I think that most women find it absolutely disgusting!!!!!

March 4 2004, 5:01 PM 

Well Anonymous ~~~ You certinely dont sound like a woman I would want to go out with, or any guy with the way you sound. Having a guy cum is a very natural thing for you to do. Not to like having him cum must crimp your love life, that is if you have any. JMO

 
 

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Socially formed

March 5 2004, 2:32 AM 

I think men and women could easily be equal on the sexual playing field, if society would let us...too bad :-/

 
 
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Re: Re: Significance of an orgasm to a woman

March 7 2004, 12:12 PM 

Hi susan!
I was reading your post about the Viagra trial for women and i was wondering why was it abandoned? Do you have the link where i could read up more about it? Thank you!

 
 

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Re: Re: Re: Significance of an orgasm to a woman

March 7 2004, 1:06 PM 

I'll look for the link and post it in a new thread when I find it. But I do recall the details pretty well. After a 3 year trial two different research teams concluded that Viagra did not work for women who had never had any interest in sex. Viagra does not create interest - or set the hormones in motions that cause the interest. BUT they did find that women who had lost their desire due to an injury, acquired disability, or surgery - found that taking Viagra could turn the interest back on for them. But this was not all women in these circumstances it was only a small percentage. It was not clear form the article whether they then needed to use Viagra all the time - or just for a short while until their body got back in sync again. I'll look and try to find the full report for you.

Susan

 
 
Nick
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Re: question

May 27 2004, 4:54 AM 

I've been curious about this old post for a long time but just got over being too afraid to ask.....

Susan wrote:

> Viagra doesn't make women excited ( or men) it
> only helps with creating bodily responses to excitement.
> Guys for the most part have no problem getting excited-
> they see something and they get excited -maybe even
> orgasm - but for women it is much more emotional.
> If there is no emotional connection -
> there is no orgasm.

Ok, this might sound really dumb, but if for a woman, if there's no emotional connection, there's no orgasm, then how can a woman orgasm with a plastic object that has no emotion?

I'm just curious. Maybe there's just a totally different state of mind with masterbation and the woman can control the situation, whereas with a guy she needs that connection to get what she needs? maybe it's that you can't be annoyed at the sex toy so it's easier but with a partner you really need the emotional connection. i'm sure it's 100% better for guys too if they connect with their partner.

I'm not meaning to be stupid I'm just curious.

Nick

 
 

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Re: question

May 27 2004, 8:59 AM 

Nick,

You are thinking of emotional connectional differently than the way I meant it.

Erection for men can be an automatic response. You look down - and what do you know- it's erect. You have no idea why- it has a mind of its own. You didn't touch it, you didn't see anything sexy, - it just all of a sudden decided it was sexually excited----maybe the wind : ) Then all a guy has to do (for the most part) is go thru the right actions - and voila - an ejaculation. Sometimes even without wanting too a man will start leaking precum. He has very little control over stopping it. If you do the right thing long enough - most men will ejaculate. Orgasm is a little more complicated and doesn't ALWAYS come with ejaculation. Even guys need a llittle emotional connection for orgasm.

Women are very different. If they get sexually excited they know why. The emotional connection is that there's desire and arousal and a sort of deliberateness to women's arousal. If you touch a woman the right way, or in certain places, - even if she doesn't care about you - her body may become sexually aroused but she is not going to orgasm. (Men who rape women often think that the fact a women might get wet is a sign she is enjoying it - it is not - SOMETIMES the body responds to touching certain places even if you don't want the touch.) Orgasm comes from letting your mind give in to an orgasm. So the emotional connection a woman feels with masturbation is not to the sex toy, but to herself.

Masturbation is truly having sex with yourself. You are alone - but you are relating to your body in a sexual way. Sex toys just help the process.

Susan

 
 

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Re: question

May 27 2004, 9:00 AM 

Nick,

You are thinking of emotional connectional differently than the way I meant it.

Erection for men can be an automatic response. You look down - and what do you know- it's erect. You have no idea why- it has a mind of its own. You didn't touch it, you didn't see anything sexy, - it just all of a sudden decided it was sexually excited----maybe the wind : ) Then all a guy has to do (for the most part) is go thru the right actions - and voila - an ejaculation. Sometimes even without wanting too a man will start leaking precum. He has very little control over stopping it. If you do the right thing long enough - most men will ejaculate. Orgasm is a little more complicated and doesn't ALWAYS come with ejaculation. Even guys need a llittle emotional connection for orgasm.

Women are very different. If they get sexually excited they know why. The emotional connection is that there's desire and arousal and a sort of deliberateness to women's arousal. If you touch a woman the right way, or in certain places, - even if she doesn't care about you - her body may become sexually aroused but she is not going to orgasm. (Men who rape women often think that the fact a women might get wet is a sign she is enjoying it - it is not - SOMETIMES the body responds to touching certain places even if you don't want the touch.) Orgasm comes from letting your mind give in to an orgasm. So the emotional connection a woman feels with masturbation is not to the sex toy, but to herself.

Masturbation is truly having sex with yourself. You are alone - but you are relating to your body in a sexual way. Sex toys just help the process.

Susan

 
 
peter
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Re: Socially formed

May 27 2004, 11:41 AM 

I think that the inequality factor rests more in the physiological makeup of the two sexes rather than the sociological side. We are simply made differently.

 
 
Nick
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Re: question

May 29 2004, 3:31 AM 

Thanks Susan for a good answer. I understand now I think. The emotional connection is with herself. Cool.

And yeah that's totally true about guys just randomly going hard for no reason. That's happened to me. At first I wondered if something was wrong with me. But I figure it does this because it's like how you're supposed to maintain your backyard power generator -- you should start it up every few months for no reason just to make sure it works to keep it ready. I figure that's what it is doing, just your daily test of the penis emergency broadcast system, lol.

Nick

 
 
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