Hi. I have never given a guy head before, but my boyfriend wants me to do it, and i really want to do it for him, but i'm SO LOST. Could i have some advice about what to do. I don't know ANYTHING at all, so the more detailed and graphic the better. Thanks.
"Giving head" the first time may seem pretty weird - but with practice it will seem less weird.
I suggest you ask your boyfriend to wash his penis before you do it the first time. After you have done it a few times this might not be so important. Expect that your boyfriend's penis will taste a little funny. You might really like the taste or
you might need to get used to it. If you don't like it very much try not to breath.
The first time you do it just lick the head of his penis - the round part at the end. Lick around it in circles - especially the ridge. Think of it as like a piece of candy.
After that feels ok, then try to put the head of his penis in your mouth. Lick it some more while it is in your mouth - you can also suck it / like a baby bottle. While you do this hold his penis in your hand- slide your hand up and down his
penis or squeeze it - let go- squeeze it.
Every man is different so what your boyfriend may like things fast or slow- soft or hard. Try doing it different ways and see what he likes best. Ask him to tell you what he likes and what he doesn't like. Don't be afraid to talk about sex with each other.
That's plenty to do for the first time.
Susan
Big John (no login)
Loli-pop
April 12 2004, 12:46 PM
Just think of it as a Loli-pop. Suck on it and move your head up & down. You will get the hange of it soon enough.