Hi,
What a great person you are for answering all these questions! I am 25, and just became sexually active for the first time about a month ago. At first, my boyfriend came/orgasmed every time we had sex. However, since about 2 weeks ago, there've been a few times in which he didn't come. More recently, he's lost his erection a couple times during sex, and I've had to give him a "hand job" to help him finish. One time, even that didn't work. Any ideas as to what I can do, or what's going on? Do you suppose he's just not attracted to me anymore already? Thanks!
Melissa
Guys are not machines. Sometimes they are under stress, sometimes they are tired, and sometimes they are just not turned on. Stop thinking his orgasm/ejaculation is automatic.
Just enjoy it when it happens and stop worrying when it doesn't.
There may e times that he needs to finish off himself. Happens to the best of guys.
and.....
Chances are there is nothing wrong with your boyfriend and it certainly has nothing to do with your attractiveness.....so relax.
From a guy point of view:
An over-heated penis absolutely won't work no matter what you do. It may be fully erect, but not responding. I found that out several times in attempting my 3rd time around. If this is true for your boyfriend, a little cool water splashed on it gets it back in working order...fast..like magic. Try and see! Always good to remember this. Please play safe!