When my friend and I have oral sex I cannot last very long before I cum after she starts. Is their anything I can do to make myself last longer?
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HI

Not a lot you can do. But one thing you can try is to masturbate the day you are going to be together. You then will probably not have the same urgency. Also when you feel like you are getting close - tell her to stop - take a breather- and then let her start up again.

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Susan

masturbate the day you are going to be together. I do that also. The second time around takes a lot longer, depending how many hours you took care of your self before you meet..

I have the same problem. I spend a lot of time bringing my wife to orgasm (manual and oral stimulation) and by the time I am ready to enter I am about ready to go off. I have learned that if I masterbate a few hours before, that controls it to a certian degree. Sometimes though my urge or drive deminishes because of this and go to bed and sleep kind of counter productive.

Peter, that only means you should take care of your self a little longer then just a few hours. Or let her suck on it for a while to get you going again. It always work for me.

That might work, but I am into giving oral than she is. I'll opt for a little more time before.

Peter, dont you want to receive as well as giving ????. I dont know about you, but I love to get sucked on.

A lot of guys have this same problem ...so it's not only you. Try doing a search on Google.com on "Premature Ejaculation". See what they suggest.
GNC sells a bunch of stuff claiming it can help you.
For the price, Cobra seems to help.
It seems weird, and I would think it's the opposite, and I don't really understand it, but I swear that Viagra 50 mg about an hour before, although I get bigger and harder, gives better control and I can last longer. It must do something to control orgasms better.
And, finally, don't be afraid to discuss it with your doctor. If he's a little square, you don't have to give him intimate details...just that you simply have premature ejaculation. He should be able to help you.

It is not that I don't want it, rather she doesn't appear very eager to do it.

Viagra is partly designed to help with premature ejaculation - so why do you think it is weird that it does?

Viagra basicaly is an intense blood thinner. Thinner blood means more blood can flow into your penis. Blood flow is what makes your penis erect.