My wife and I have been swingers for some yours now, for the last 3 or 4 years we have been chatting about disabled people and sex. We have decided that we would like to assist one or two disabled people to fore fill their sexual desires, who should we go about this we have set up a web page but we do not want to sound condescending by advertising sex with disabled people. Could you please advise us the best rout to take in helping people sexually? Are the any more forums that we could lease a polite message on?

We live in the UK. I would like to stress that we are not looking for any fees at all, just fun and friendship

If you would like to contact us by email , it’s Ukhotelfun@hotmail.com

All the best

Sue and James

Since you are comfortable with swinging- I suggest you set up a disability friendly swinging event/ site. Be sure the venue is accessible. Be sure there are accessible places to stay. And I strongly suggest you allow single guys with disabilities to participate.

Then you can both facilitate your own experiences and others. People get to meet each other socially and not simply for sex.

The only organization dedicated to disability and sexuality just closed it doors - "SPOD". But the 'Outsiders" is going to try to address some of their issues - so you may want to get in touch with them.
http://www.outsiders.org.uk

Susan

Thats a concept that i can never understand, who swing? Who in their right mind would allow another man to sleep with his wife. JUst say i'm married, i'm the one taking care of her, loving her, worshiping her every step, making sure she wants for nothing and then i go and let her get some fuck from some sleazy guy who hasn't done squat and would never know what an amazing person she is. WHat drives these people? i admit it does sound exciting but still, we are humans afterall....

You are describing swinging at its worst. Lots of swingers are fine upstanding citizens who you'd never imagine would be swingers - and the people they swing with are just the same. And swinging can be a very private experience - it all depends on how the persons choose to practice it.

Some people are in very secure relationships and able to think of sex in two ways. In one way it is love and sex, but in another it is simply sex. Swinging involves a lot of trust and a different kind of relationship. It works well for some people, but not all people.

Susan