In my experience I have seen different sizes, shapes of womans clits.
The question. Is there any difference in there sex drives if they are large ???. Maybe more sensitive, more surface area to tounge/suck/handle/play with ???.

The short answer - no- size has nothing to do with it.

There's a lot more to a clitoris than you can see. A clitoris ( any clitoris) is as big or bigger than a penis. In fact a penis and a clitoris start out as exactly the same thing.

The biggest difference between the two is where the urethra (pee hole) protrudes out and how much of it is outside the body. But, both get erect (although a penis gets more visibly erect), both are capable of ejaculation (although men do it much more commonly), both orgasm ( although women can do it much much more often), both urinate ( although women do it in a separate section), both have surrounding muscles which help it work better ( but women have more of them), and both are capable of intense pleasure.

With a penis - almost all of it is outside the body- so what you see is what you get. With a clitoris three quarters of it is inside her body. The average length of a penis when it is not hard is 4 inches - the average length of a clitoris is 4 inches.

The average clitoral glans ( think head of your penis) is about one-quarter of an inch in diameter and the upper body of the clitoris (think the rest of the penis you can see) is three-quarters of an inch in length. That leaves 3 inches of the clitoris that is unseen and deeper inside the body.

The portion of the clitoris that projects out from the pubic bone, and can be felt with your fingers, is then one inch in length and a quarter of an inch in diameter. This can also be thought of as the distance between the tip of the clitoris to the urethra.

Most guys concentrate their efforts on the tip - which is not all bad - but they are missing out. The urethra is usually just as senstive as a clitoris tip - but women often pee when their urethra is massaged and so they worry so much it doesn't seem to feel good at all. The pain women often feel with sex is the pain of needing to pee. Women learn that you do not pee when you have sex. Holding pee is painful. So great sex is aften misunderstood and made painful by what women and men do not know about a women's anatomy.

So what about these 3 inches you can't see? These are behind the pubic bone and are against the wall of her vagina (Think g-spot) . This is part of the reason some sexual postions are better for some women, hurt for others, and do nothing for others.

There are other differences between clitoris and penises - but suffice to say - women feel 10 times the pleasure guys ever do. The clitoris is designed for pleasure. The only reason women don't have all the pleasure they deserve is 9 times out of 10 because of stuff inside their head and not anything to do with what is between their legs.

http://www.the-clitoris.com/1r4/anatomy/clit01.jpg
http://www.the-clitoris.com/1r4/anatomy/clit02.jpg

Your good. Didnt relize the clit was so involved & complex.
I did read an artical a while back, that a woman can get off by putting something like the size of a pencil into their pee hole. I didnt beleive it. They also said to be careful for an infection if what ever you use is not clean.

John

The size of a pencil? OUCH!!!!!! It better be a really skinny pencil.

But yes, that would make sense. Catheter tubes are put in urethras all the time and some women do get off on that. I'd concentrate on urethral massage and forget about putting anything inside.

And yes, if you did decide to venture into that activity it better be really clean - no soap residue either. And a TON of lubrication! And you better have towels on the bed but she will probably pee like crazy. ( Consider peeing during sex as similar to ejaculation. A woman pees during sex when the pleasure is most intense. )

Susan

Oh and another thing --guys cannot ejaculate and pee at the same time because they have a valve that shuts off. Sorta like a switch that moves a train onto one track or the other.

Women on the other hand can ejaculate and pee at the same time. Sometimes a woman will do one or the other or both at the same time. We know what pee looks like- women's ejaculate looks like mens' ejaculate- and a mix of both can either look like milky pee or thin ejaculate.

Oh mannn...a girl having a 3 inch dick in her? That...was almost too graphic for me. Trying to forget that image now... *shudder*

Too bad you're trying to forget it---it you know about a woman's body you can send her to heaven!

indeed! One should know all that they can about their partner. I, being male, have no real clue as to what my wife feels or to what intensity, or where that might be unless she tells me or I study up as much as possible. With that knowlege she and I can have the most pleasurable time having sex together,... not just me.

****COMUNICATION*** --- You must talk to each other. It's eaiser said then done, but thats what, as a couple you both have to do.
I only had one woman so far that wasnt shy in what she wanted. She was one of my cyber ladies. When we meet she would say.
""I want to suck on your cock"". ""I want you to put it in my a$$"". Etc., Etc. At first I was shocked by that. Now I respect her for being so forward. It made loving each other much more rewarding.