Are you two married?
Have you been girlfriend and boyfriend a long time?
How old is she?
Is she a virgin?
Have you ever had sex?
Does she say why she won't have sex?
Tell me that and maybe I canhelp or help you understand why.
Susan
Derek (no login)
wait..
June 14 2004, 11:14 AM
If she doesn't want to have sex, then leave it at that. If you keep pressuring her then you could loose someone special to you. Maybe she is not ready. If you let her know how you feel then she will let you know when she wants to have sex. Have you done anything else other than sex?