I've been seraching the forum for about an hour reading the posts and what not.
But I haven't found answers to these questsions...so I'd really apprecheate(sp?) if you could answer them.


Ok, about a week ago my best friend's girlfriend, say that five times fast, came to me with a question that I was truely clueless about. She wanted to know if it was harder for a girl to cum if her cherry isn't popped. Being that I'm male, I of course didn't know. So I tried researching it but couldn't because of all the porn sites that came up. Being I'm 14, that's not good for me.

And my second question.
What exactly happens when a women has an orgasim?

I know I said it in my other post, but I'm a random thinker and it sometime makes it hard to ask things. So let me know if you need a clarification.


Thanks.

Jim,
Theoretically it doesn't matter whether a girl is a virgin or not when it comes to an orgasm - BUT - most girls who are virgins are young and your age does matter. an intact hymen/cherry has absolutely nothing to do with sexual pleasure orgams or anything - it is a small piece of membrane/skin that covers the opening of the vagina. Really there is not much to it.

An orgasm is a physical response to pleasure. It isn't a "thing" like ejaculation that you can see. It is a sensation of pleasure so extreme you think you are going to explode. A woman's orgams is not that much different than a guys orgasm except that women can orgasm over and over and over again - and guys have to wait awhile before they can orgasm a second time and that is usually all you get - except when you are really young.

The other difference between girls and guys orgasm is that it is usually easy for guys to have them and it can be quite hard for girls. Guys start having orgasms when enter puberty - and girls often don't have their first (real one) until they are 18 - 19 and even older.

Susan

Thank you Susan. I'll let her know that.


As for my second question...I realised I didn't word it right but my mom was starting to wake up so I had to hurry.

What I meant is what exactly happens? I mean. For a guy you have semen and sperm coming out. Does a women have any type of fluid she releases during/after and orgasim? If so, is it just like a clear fluid?

Jim,

Some women ejaculate, but not usually until they are older. It takes a woman who knows her body well and is really comfortable with what happens with it to feels free enough to let go and ejaculate. A woman's ejaculate looks pretty much like a guys sperm.

Susan

Alrighty, thanks again Susan. :)

I have been searching for just this question and answer. And I thank you for asking it first.

Being someone in her Mid-20's, and after going through an awful experience when I was younger, I have finally found a person whom I believe is my soulmate. As such, experiences in bed and in life are new.

But I have always wondered about the woman having a visible, ejaculation. I saw once on a show a woman had one, and since having my first orgasim with my signifigant other not seeing that, I wondered if there was something wrong with me. Glad to hear that there isn't!

As for my question in response to this. You mention that the woman has to be 'comfortable' with what happens and feel free to do that. Is there anyway to get a little more explanation on this? My signifigant other is not concerned with it, but I am curious since he has awakened all these new things with me.

The sensation of being about to ejaculate feels like you are about to pee. We are all taught not to pee in bed/ during sex, etc. so you have to get over that embarassment of "peeing" in front of someone and getting the bed all wet. It doesn't matter if it is ejaculate - your mind thinks of it as pee.
So you have to get comfortable with what your body does!

Susan