Ok so MY BOYFRRIEND AND I do 'stuff" but our clothes are on so ok here it goes, well when He and I get together we start making out and things get hot and heavy, well then he sarts to get an erection and I then get on top of him ( with our clothes on expec4 for some things) and well when i am on top he wants me to move slow but i like to go fast, how can i make this turn out good for both of us, since he wants me to go slow but i like to go fast ??

Take turns. Either one day your way and one day his way---or 15 mnutes or whatever period of time you like.

BUT you need to know that he still needs to wear a condom. If he ejaculates in his clothes - the ejaculate can work its way thru his clothes thru your clothes and get you pregnant. It is not very likely - but it is possible.

Susan

Susan, have there acutally been cases of women getting pregnant by semen seeping in their vagina through clothes? I have never heard of that, but maybe you know of some.

Yes there are cases of it. Clothes are made of threads that go in two directions---it looks solid but is really full of holes. The holes are very tiny, but so is sperm. Sperm can stay alive for 4 hours if wet. So the if you ejaculate thru your clother and keep on keeping on that time is perfect for the sperm to keep swimming to its target.

Susan