hi my name is jessica iam 15 years old and i i lost my virginity to my boyfriend of a year. but iam aim really consert beacuse i have been able to reach an orgasim. at first i was consert the maybe it was cuz i could never feel anything like some problems women have but i could reach orgasim with a massager on my clibtoris. but i want to be able to reach orgasim with my boy friend i need help!!!!!!!!!!!

Jessica,
If you can reach an orgasm thru masturbation- then teach your boyfriend to do the same thing. Lots of women have to teach the men they have sex with what to do.
Susan

thanx for the advise but the thing is the i want to have an orgasim while intercorse

Jessica,

Most women do not have orgasms during intercourse. When women do have orgasms during intercourse it is usually when they are much older than you are, very experienced sexually, and have several other orgasms first.

The vagina is designed for delivering and making babies. So that men will help make babies - intercourse is made really enjoyable to men. But the source of a woman's pleasure and the source of her orgams is her clitoris ( or g-spot).

Susan

well the is painfull to heard the cuz iwould like to enjoy sex. are u sure ther nothing i could do or try?if not thanx for all ur help susa

Jessica,

You do not need to have intercourse or orgasms to enjoy sex.

Intercourse is a very small part of the way most people have sex. Intercourse lasts a very short time- other forms of sex can last for hours.

Most women learn to have orgasms first my themself through masturbation and eventually have them through sex with others. You are young- be patient.

Susan

Jessica, you and your boyfriend should engage in more foreplay (petting, licking and other forms of stimulation) before having sex. Then once you get more familiar with your body and what makes you feel good then you will know what you need to do to have orgasms. Don't assume that your boyfriend should know what will give you orgasms.

susan i dont understand wats the difference between intercorse and sex?

Jessica,

There are all kinds of sex. Oral sex, anal sex, vaginal sex, masturbation, mutual masturbation, and more.

Vaginal sex is what most people call sexual intercourse.

Oral sex is kissing, licking, sucking each others sexual parts.

Anal sex is when the anus/butt is used instead f a vagina for sex.

Masturbation is touching yourself sexually while you are alone.

Mutual masturbation s when you touch each other sexually.

You can have orgasms from all these kinds of sex.

Susan