Hey Susan!
okk, i asked before, how do u know where your going to have an orgasim... and i still dont really know.. and whenever i thinkkk im going to have one i tell my partner to stop because i feel like im going to pee, and i obviously dont want to pee during sex so i tell him to stop.... any advice??
As long as you tell him to stop you are not going to orgasm. The sensation of needing to pee means you are about to orgasm. Stop worrying about peeing - it is part of having sex - stop worrying about it.
I have the exact same problem!!! Except I don't tell my boy to stop and I am fine!!! But the bad news is i still havent had an orgasim!! I know that were young (im 15) and it sucks! I feel bad for my boy cause he thinks its his fault that I wont cum! Oh well as much as we want it I guess us gurlies r going 2 have to wait!!
Yes, you have to wait. Very few women under 18 have full-blown orgasms--their bodies just are not women's bodies yet no matter how much they look like it.
Danielle, the next time you and your boyfriend have sex, try spreading an old sheet or something that you don't mind if it gets wet. Then if you start peeing on it then stop and throw it out. I once saw a sexual secrets episode that said that the fluid that comes out is not pee, rather it is G-spot fluid that comes out during G-spot orgasms, not during clitoral orgasms.
When women orgasm - clitoral, vaginal, or g-spot they can pee or ejaculate or both.
Men have a valve that prevents them from peeing and ejaculating at the same time - women do not.
So when a woman is about to orgasm - if she is going to have a strong orgasm she will push out - like having a baby. If she has pee in her kidney she will probably pee. ( And nearly all of us have some pee in our bodies most of the time) If she has a really good orgasm, she may also ejaculate. After she has ejaculated/peed a few times - then she may just ejaculate.
As strange as it might sound, I think that sometimes that happens to me. When I lubricate the head of my erect penis and stimulate it, I start to pee, but it stays erect so I keep going and when the pee is emptied from my bladder then eventually I'll start to orgasm. Mind you, I'll only do it that stile over a toilet bowl.