i wanna have sex with my bf really bad, actually i am christi's sister, we just use the same account. If your thirteen is there anyway you can get a form of birthcontrol. IF you do, do they have to tell your parents?
This message has been edited by Xuxan on Aug 6, 2004 9:43 AM
You can get birth control from Planned Parenthood and they are not allowed to tell your parents. ( Since you live in the USA)
But first they will have to give you a pelvic exam and test you for sexually transmitted diseases.
Why do you want to have sex so bad??? Sex at 13 is really not going to be so great. It might even hurt - alot. A woman's body at 13 is not very old and her hips are not very wide and having sex can be very painful - and if not painful it will just not feel that good. You are much better off waiting until you are older and sex can feel fantastic.
Are you already having oral sex, or touching sexually? Is boyfriend wanting to have sex too?
yes, we are orally active and have been for quite some time, my sister said that same, so i guess that i'll go with you two. I just felt that i should get a second opinion. My boyfriend is 16 and has lost his virginity. We have done everything but have sex because i said that i would feel better gettin some input first. Thankyou for your help
Sounds like you have a smart sister. It also sounds like you have a boyfriend who might be pressuring you to have sex.
THERE IS SOMETHING VERY IMPORTANT YOU NEED TO UNDERSTAND.
When he is over 16 years old and you are under 16 years old it is illegal for the two of you to have sex. Oral sex - any kind of sex. It is called statutory rape. It does not matter if you say it is OK. It does not matter if your parents know and say it is OK. It is illegal.
If your parents find out you are having sex (even oral sex)- and they report it to the police - he will go to jail and stay there until there is a trial.
There is a woman who was just released fron prison for statutory rape- she was in prison for 7 years.
It would also go on your boyfriend's record for his whole life that he was a child abuser. There is 3 years difference in your age- so a new law that was just passed about not putting this on your record would not apply to him.
His name would be put on the internet as a child abuser/predator. He would have to have a probation officer for a very long time after his trial. Anywhere he lived for the rest of his life he would have to report to the police where he lived. When he applied for a job people would find out what he did as this is called a felony. When he moved into a neighborhood his neighbors might find out and be vey unhappy he was their neighbor and be forced to move bevcause they made his life hell.
This is a link to Arkansa's registery http://www.acic.org/Registration/index.htm
You are not taking any risks. Your boyfriend is taking very very big risks with his whole life. If you really care about him - you need to give serious thought to stopping having sex.
Susan
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Re: a little help
August 6 2004, 8:56 AM
Like Susan said, you are way too young to be having sex kaylea. Your body is probably not mature enough for intercourse and may be dangerous. I am 23 and still have not had sex yet. What has become of our society Susan? Are we going backwards in evolution that our children are having sex? Kids should not be having sex.
I agree that kids should not be having sex - but the reality of it is they are. Personally I just wish they would have sex smarter so they could stay safer.