I have been masturbating for a while. About a week ago, I made myself bleed while masturbating with a carrot that was about 1 1/2 inches.. I figured this was my hymen braking. The next day, while masturbating with a smaller carrot, I bled again. I then decided to wait a week to masturbate. Today I masturbated with the big carrot again, and I bled a lot. I want to know how long this will keep happening!!
And also, which is better, to keep going, even when you bleed, or to stop, and wait a week before masturbating again.
Also, is it possible to tear anything else while pushing the carrot in? Any other skin, or anything?
Thanks for your help.

Smiles

This does not sound right to me at all. The first two times makes sense - but this time does not. Are you positive it is not time for your menstrual period to start?

You must be pushing it in too deep and/ or it has sharp edges to it. Yes al the skin inside can be cut or torn. Are you covering it in something - that might have sharp edges that are cutting you inside. Another possibility is that since you didn't cover the condom with anything you now have an infection.

I suggest you try to masturbate one more time with a small carrot - and if you bleed again it is time to have a talk with your mom and get to the doctor. Bleeding this many times has a reason - and something needs to change. Either you need to use something made to masturbate with so you do not hurt yourself - or something is wrong and a doctor needs to take care of you.

Susan

No, this is not Jessica.

O.K. If I emailed you a pic, would you be able to tell me if something is wrong?
No, nothing I use has sharp edges.

no, its not time for my cycle, I normally start at the end of the month, and finish about a week after that.

No, a pic isn't going to help. The sharp edges are not going to be sharp like what could cut your finger - the seam of a plastic bag could cut the very sensitve insides of your vagina. Just a very tiny rough spot on the carrot could do it.

If you are sure the carrot is not the problem. Are you being too rough on yourself? Are you using any lubrication?

Do you have any discharge between times you masturbate - yellow- white or green? Do you smell bad there - or very different than before? Do you itch or burn?

Susan

No, a pic isn't going to help. The sharp edges are not going to be sharp like what could cut your finger - the seam of a plastic bag could cut the very sensitve insides of your vagina. Just a very tiny rough spot on the carrot could do it.

If you are sure the carrot is not the problem. Are you being too rough on yourself? Are you using any lubrication?

Do you have any discharge between times you masturbate - yellow- white or green? Do you smell bad there - or very different than before? Do you itch or burn?

Susan

O.K. It does look a little funny on the outside, at the beginning of the hole, it looks like one side has broken apart, is this possible?

No, I am not sure the carrot isn't the problem, but I don't have anything else to use that is round enough, everything else I have is thin.

No, I don't have anu discharge, except for the normal when I masturbate, or if I talk about sex. No, no smelling bad, and no itching or burning. It is a little sore. But not so much I can't do anything, just if I get hit there, or something.

I really don't want to tell my Mom, because she is against masturbating, and I don't go to a doctor at all.

Smiles,

I think you need to bite the bullet and talk to your mom. You don't have to tell her you are masturbating - but it sounds to me like you do need to go to the doctor. Tell her your vagina is sore and bleeding.

If you want to masturbate - use your fingers. The carrots may be causing the problem.

This could be a serious problem -if you have ripped the entrance to your vagina and it heals improperly you could have problems the rest of your life with sex. Do it today!

Susan

Nothing sharp that I know of. Is it possible for the opening on the outside to tear down the side? Or is it supposed to do that? Nothing hurts, or anything, but it still looks strange. I can't tell my parents, because they are against masturbating. I don't want anything to be wrong, but I am not sure.

Then you need to talk to your mom and get to a doctor.

This could have nothing to do with masturbating. It could get worse. So stop masturbating, Talk to your mom. See a doctor. After you find out what the problem is it will probbably be ok to start masturbating again----but with your fingers.

Susan