yes it sucks me n my boy friend have sex but i never had an orgasim but like everytime we do it i give him a hanjob or a blow job to get him stared but he never really gives it back n just figeres me ( which is not really good cuz is not big like his penis so is not the same sensation) n i had told him the for me to be able to reach my orgasim we have to forplay. but when "we for play" it doesnt fell good so how do i telling i want him with out makeiong him feel unconfortable? n how do i tell him i want to do more stuff other then just fingering? (ohh n he told me he didnt like licking pussy so wat do i do??????????
My guess is you are not having orgasms because you have no idea how to have sex. Fingering is not about sliding a finger in and out of your vagina. That can be part of it if your boyfriend knows how to find your g-spot - otherwise it accomplishes nothing.
Fingering is about touching your clitoris. The clitoris is the part of the body that causes women the most pleasure - fingering is about making your clitoris feel wonderful.
Any boyfriend of mine who refused to give me oral sex would not get any oral sex from me. A man giving a woman oral pleasure is one of the best things he can do for her. If your boyfriend is too immature to understand that - then there really isn't that much you can do.