My girlfriend and I had sex for the first time a week and a half ago. We used a condom the three times that it has happened. She is now a few days late on her period. The condom did not slip, tear, or break during intercourse. Also, I did not ejaculate inside of her even with the condom. Does having sex for the first few times, like with my girlfriend, increase the chances of a delayed period, or could she be pregnant. She feels now that something is off, described a brown discharge and feels that she is pregnant. She took a urine pregnancy test about a week and a half after first intercourse. The test was negative but we are aware that it may not be accurate yet. Could you please respond.

Nick,

Condoms don't always work. Sometimes you can't even see a tiny little hole in a condom. That is why whenever you have sex you need to consider the consequences.

A brownish discharge could be the beginning of her period or she could be pregnant. And you are right it is to soon after the pregancy test to know for sure.

Welcome to scary adulthood. Wait another week and have her take the terst again. If it is negative again - breathe easy.

Susan

I'm assuming that this fellow Nick is not the same Nick as our friend Nick.


Clay,
How can you possibly think this for one second? You do not need to respond to every message that gets posted here with some comment you add without much thought. I deleted one of the words in your post. Please think about what your words mean when you write them. Your post was offensive to Nick and to me and others who read this forum with disabilities.
Susan

Sorry Susan. I was just wondering if it was the same guy. I wasn't trying to be insulting, but you usually claim that I am.

Clay,

Since you have noticed the pattern - why don't you try harder not to be offensive? Just because you do not share the same values/ life experiences does not make a person any less or more unfortunate than you. Nick has made it clear what is going on in his life right now - how could he possibly be the Nick who wrote that post - think about it! Nick is an incredible young man who is making tremedous political strides in his community - he just has a social life with tremendous changes. It is unfortunate you can not see that.

Susan

I must extend my congratulations to our friend Nick for all of contributions to his community. Maybe the world would be a better place if we all had a little bit of Nick's qualities inside of us.