Well here's what I wanted to know , my girlfriends periods just got over a day back ( day before yesterday ) and yesterday we made love ( ofcourse I had the condom on ) , however she was insisiting on me to go in without a condom as she said it was safe as she was in her safe periods, in other words she said that this was the time when there is no risk involved, anyways I did not listen to her and had my safety on , but is it true that there is something like safe periods, again when is the best time to time out safe sex, is it after the perioids get over or before they start.
This is really important - so do not forget it. There is no SAFE time. No matter what any girl says - NO time is safe.
There are SAFER times and this includes the day after she starts her period until about 5 days after it ends. BUT lots of women do get pregnant then - and mostly ones with young sex partners who have lots of fertile sperm to share.
YOU need to take responsibility as does she. So if you are not ready to be a father- ALWAYS wear a condom - No matter when.