I've recently saw a documentary on national geographic channel about the Congo civil war. U saw the a rebel side or something and they told that they used as weapons not only the custom weapons, but also special berrys that they planted near routes and when the enemy would eat it they sais there cocks would swell up.
Perhaps this is the answer for men with small girth, but i dont think it is ethical to do that. On the other hand everthings is allowed in love and war i ques.

Bjorn

Bjorn,

I can only imagine that this was a very painful swelling and sex was out of the question.

Susan

What was the point of that post Bjorn?

What is the point of the clay v susan post. Its the smae thing. It has nothing to do with sex but it could be an interesting topic to disguss about Clay.

Bjorn

Duuhhh! clay vs susan thread was there as what clay has been saying was very dangerous and could have permanently destroyed someone's life. Susan is highlighting that point. You freakish cock thead has some merit but what is the conclusion? You had an opening, a possible suggestion but failed to convey your message to the audience. Effective communication is the holy grail of all companies and it's easy to trivilise.

Can you please enlighten me as to what it was that I said that was so dangerous and permanently destroy someone's life? Was it the girl who had a suicidal friend? I doubt that my words could ever be so powerful as to destroy someone's life.

Hmm...i bet there were many post but what i can remember is this onetime you said you disapprove of interacial marriages and if your wife ever got raped and she got pregnant, you would force an abortion upon her just so you could save face. I can't imagine what would or might have happened if some girl was in the same predicament, just gotten raped and then comes here for help and unfortunately stumblin on your post. It might just be the nudge that will send her over the edge. You have to remember, nothing in life is ever a dead end and as long as we live all things can be overcome. I know we are not perfect and a lot of us sit on a mighty throne and pass judgment on the rest but sometimes i just wished we could also be forgiving. I've made mistakes and a lot of them too. I wish to god that i didnt do the things i did but i cant and for the rest of my life i have to live with this burden but it is mine to carry and i pray that i have learnt from my lessons. I know i will be challenged from now on and it doesnt matter if i win one day or 10000 days, it all comes down to that one time of weakness and giving in. I know i can be strong but what i am afraid is when i am weak. Perhaps in me hoping people would forgive is just my way of trying to find forgiveness myself.
Its all up to you Clay, are your opinions so important that you are willing to walk upon the rest of us? Have a heart man, is it too much to ask? You have seemed to tone down over the weeks and it is interesting to see the transformation. I do hope susan wouldn't ban you just so you could be a role model for some of us. The ability to change...

you never know what a couple words can do to some people Clay, i've heard of people that were close too killing themselves but someone showed them a bit of love and caring and completly turned they're lives around.

I hate too say it, but i too was close too suicide before, one of my friends sat down with me and she talked too me and showed me how too fix what was stressin me out. She changed my life forever that day with just a couple minutes of talkin too me. and i am dead serious, if she hadn't found out, i probably wouldn't be typing this up right now but i'd be a headstone in some graveyard.

so never underestimate the power of words.

and if you don't think some words can kill someone, this is a true story from the highschool i went too, I remeber this day and will never forget it. a guy yelled down a hallway infront of dozens of people too this girl "Hey Ugly!" *not very hurting* but that night she committed suicide, we hadn't found out for about a week later, and now that guy has too live the rest of his life knowing that by him saying 2 words "hey ugly" someone killed themselves over it.

so a couple of words can change a persons life, if you take this advise great, if you don't well i'm sure theres at least one person out there that will look diffrently next time they wanna shout out some nasty words too someone.

I'm sorry for all of the mean things that I have said over the weeks. I guess that my words can be more powerful than I first thought. I just like to have debates on here, but I never knew that what I have said could have a grave impact on others. I will try to be more considerate and accepting and not post harsh messages in the future.