Hi Susan, It's been a long time since I've written or even looked through messages because I haven't had my computer. But a long time ago you wrote about things you should be able to discuss with a partner before having sex, and for a long time that never worked for me, probably becuase I was sleeping with guys I should not have been. But recently I have met someone who is very respectful of that part of of the relationship and has not pushed or asked for anything. And we have been able to discuss all the things that you should discuss before you sleep with someone. It has made everything so much better, it is amazing how much more attracted to him I am because we can reasonably discuss what ever I feel the need to discuss. I really appreciate all the help you have given. Hopefully I won't have to write back to much after we do sleep together with a ton of questions of what went wrong! ;)
I do have one question, though. Isn't it true that if a guy comes into his shorts and is right next to my panties, and my panties get wet with it, that I can still get pregnant or catch whatever disease he has because it is still in the vaginal region?
It is really good to hear from you and it is really good to hear that what I say actually works for you! Keep up the good work. I'd love to hear more.
And yes you are right. Sperm and diseases both are able to move through fabric - fabric isn't solid - it has tiny holes. So if ther eis enough to get wet - then ther is enough to get you pregnant or to catch a lot of different sexually transmitted diseases. That's why I suggest that guys use condom the minute they are getting sexual with a girl. Too late- is just too late!