thank u again for ur infomation on how to use a condom...but i hav other things that are really worrying me.
i counted and im atleast 3 days late of my period. me and my boyfriend had sex about 2 weeks ago (exactly 12 days if this will help you)...we used protection a trojan condom with spermicide covering, he didnt ejaculate, so its seems as if there shouldnt have been a problem. and now it didnt break becauze we checked. i dont understand this because i had all the symtoms of me about to have my period a couple days after sex...i was eating alot my breasts hurt, but then i got some cramps as well, and usually i get cramps telling me im about to get my period, the cramps have stopped now, and its been 2 days since i last had them, and now im really worried. how does that work??...i get those period kinda cramps n then i stop getting them and no sign of a period. i say im 3 days late cuz 3 days ago would have been exactly 30 days from the last time i had it..and it hasnt come and im getting scared. should i take a test soon, and which one would u reccomend? i have this huge fear of being pregnant, and i guess u would tell me u shudnt be having sex then, but the reason he didnt ejaculate was because i stopped him because i knew it was wrong and i wasnt ready. but now im just really afraid i might be pregnant. i want to be able to go to a doctor and atleats get a real test done so i know for sure, but i dont know if they will contact my parents. im 17..so im a minor so i guess they will right?
also we had sex about a mnth ago for the first time, and i guess i cudnt call it sex cuz we stopped again cuz i didnt feel right, i still got my period after it, but then you were telling this other girl about being irregular and how u might even have ur period while ur pregnant. am i one of these cases?...i'm not exactly irregular,and im not exactly on time...im always like a day late or a day early.. but i mean this is scary how late i am, so could i have been pregnant from last mnth and not know it.
i know i should def take a test, and im goign to a drugstore to get a test... is there one thats really accurate you'd reccomend? also, i never ever ever could belive i was even considering this, but if i am pregant i want to be able to know if i can get an abortion without having my parents knowing. i know you will think this is a bad idea, but i guess as a minor i wouldnt be able to go to a clinic wihtout them telling my parents right?
me and my boyfriend will be waitng one more week for my period to come, but for now i really need to figure out how i can go to a doctor to get tested without my parents knowing. also can u exlpain to me how a spermicide on a condom works?? i always thought spermicide was a foam or a gel inserted into the vagina that blocks the sperm. true i guess the name itself means kills sperm, but does it actually do that on a condom if it has a hole in it?
thank you so much. really you have no idea, im not sure if half of us have even told you how much we appreciate all the stuff u tell us. i dunno if u ever thought of working in a school but, u would make the ideal health teacher. im not sucking up or anything, but the stuff that comes here about birth control and what not is really the things they should be teaching in school i they want us to stay safe.
I am really sorry I away and did not see your post.
I hope you have gotten a preganncy test by now. I hope the results are like you hope.
Abortion is a very serious thing to consider. It is the ending of a potential life you have created. It is something you will think about for the rest of your life. Sometimes abortions do end badly - it is not as easy as learning to use birth control properly.
You need to get very serious about being a responsible adult. Having sex is what adults do. So I suggest you go to http://www.sexsupport.org/curious.html and read it all. You will learn a lot that way.
Spermicide helps with good quality condoms as extra protection. It is not enough with a bad condom.
As a teenager the laws about seeing doctors, getting birth control, having abortions are different everywhere.
Just because a guy doesnot ejaculate does not mean you are safe. Precum can be one drop and get your pregnant. You wonlt feel it and he probably won;t either. By the time you know to stop it is too late.
If you are really worried about getting pregannt you need to start using a form of brith control yourself AND use condoms. That is the safest way to have sex.