I am 24, she is 22. We are both virgins, happy about it, and taking it slow...which can be testing on my patience sometimes...ESPECIALLY since we don't get to see eachother as often as I'D like because of school and distance...but I know it's well worth it....or at least it's what I try to tell myself!!
She is a lot better kisser than I am though...not that I'm necessarily bad...she's just better. She will tell me..."more like this," or "softer," and we'll just keep going on kissing even more after that, roaming hands..., touching eachothers faces and necks and upper bodies with our noses and tounges...I like softly moving my nose and tongue sometimes behind her neck and ears, down her upper body and breasts...and I'm pretty sure she likes it too! I'm FAR from perfect...but I don't mind practicing!! But I think I could use some adivce for better french kissing...I know everybody does it a bit different...but she says when we open our mouths, my tongue always seems to seek for her bottom lip...she usually giggles and we try again...haha...is this actually bad?
How can I do it better for both of us?? Something new to try? This means a lot to me!!
Kissing is about communicating how you feel about anothe rperson with your mouth. So just think about what you are felling and your body will start to respond. There is no secret- except to have fun.
Susan
Thank you for your response! It is so much fun isn't it?...a lot of feelings involved. Knew there wasn't a science to it...because everybody does and likes it differently! What are some other techniques/areas of kissing and feeling that will make her feel special?
I went back to when I was dating to my thoughts and techniques then...
I actually don't believe that your kissing technique alone is so important. When you kiss, you usually don't convey to your mate, what you are thinking. Talking and kissing is important.
Why? She may be kissing you and thinking of her last date with someone else. You will want her full attention. So, you will want to know what she's thinking. This will be the BOND that holds you together when you are separate, and the foundation for your next date.. Her words will be etched in your mind. Sometimes, it's hard to find the words with your hormones raging. I think saying kind words goes a long way to create a positive mood where the kiss becomes the "icing on the cake". Many times, words with tiny kisses, are effective too. Talking with your mate is important cause you really want to know each other well before you get serious. I guess there is a time to talk and a time to kiss..you got to decide when, how and how long to kiss. It's important to be yourself and forget how other's do it. It's all kind of natural. When she's with you...that time should be very special.
Kissing is a method of communication. Learn to communicate your feelings through your lips. But learning to communicate well using words is also an excellent idea!