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Can I stop?

October 4 2004 at 3:39 AM
Scott  (Login Scotty_Hanson)

 
Hey this is my very first post, stumbled upon your site and it looks great. Everyone here seems to have their input and helping everyone out.

Anyways I'll get down to the point and not bore you all =-).

Is it possible to stop masterbating? And why is it so addicting?

Ive tried to stop many times unsuccessfully, Its complete habbit, I find I randomly turn on porn and start to masterbate while I'm alone watching T.V.

Any answers out there?

-Scott

 
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Re: Can I stop?

October 6 2004, 12:41 PM 

Scott,

Why try to stop??? Is it a problem? Masturbation is a normal healthy activity unless it is creating a problem in your life because you do it instead of doing other things when you need to.

I've never known anyone to try to stop successfully.

Susan

 
 
Clay
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Re: Can I stop?

October 6 2004, 10:36 PM 

I have thought of this before too Scotty. My advice to you would be to reduce the amount of masterbation to about once a day or even less if you want. That way it will be much more meaningful and fulfilling.

 
 
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Re: Can I stop?

October 7 2004, 3:20 AM 

I remember when I was younger(about 14 or so) I was embarassed about masturbation. And I tried to stop several times. I would think "ok, once I start HS, I am not going to masturbate anymore".

These were all very short lived endeavours. I think the longest I ever made it was about 3 days.

Now at 28 I have no delusions or wish to stop. I am not sure if you are young, but if you are I guarentee that it will be much more socially accpetable withing your peer group when you become an adult(assuming you belong to a western culture).

I saw a comic one time on the web that showed a couple of kids(two guys and a girl) hanging out and the girl says something like "I heard that 90% of all teenage boys masturbat, is that true?" And the two guys procede to object vehemently, and say that they would never do such a thing. The next panel shows the same guy as an adult walking out of the bathroom holding a girly mag and bragging about the masturbatory session he just had to his friends.

In truth it is very close to what happens in real life

/longer than needed post.

 
 
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