I am from a country where talking about sex is not a normal thing. Also religion do not alow it as well. But I am attracted to girls. I do peep at my next door neighbours. Also I like watching their legs. staring at their boobs. and I am some times lucky to see then nude. I do masterbate as well. I forget to mention I am 24. I have a friend she is 40 and likes me. We two like to be together but could not becuase of lack of chances. Please advise.
Not sure why you have a lack of chances----is she married or something?
At 24 you have lots of opportunities to find women to be with for friendship- and hopefully that can lead to more including marriage and sex. Sounds as if you are havig very normal mature male feelings to me.
Susan
Sarter (no login)
Re: I look at Gals
October 6 2004, 6:36 PM
She is married and have kids. She sometimes feel she is cheating but she wants me too. Thats all. I had been with her she like when I kiss her. Touch her. feel her. we did not had intercourse and some times do not intend too.But we do exchange love thoughts over net. Should I continue this relation with her?
Only you and she know the answer to that. But I would think especially since there are children involved you are best to look elsewhere for a relationship partner. This is not likely to turn into anything permanent.
Starter, you sound like a decent guy, like me (I'm 23), with little experience with relationships and sex. Why don't you just date a girl about your own age bro? Your lady friend is about 40 and old enough to be your mother. My guess is that she is a little neglected in her marriage as many middle aged couples are, and seeks your companionship, because you make her feel loved and young again. Hats off to you for cheering her up.
But for your own good, you shouldn't have a serious relationship with her, because that might cause her marriage to end and I know that I wouldn't be able to look myself in the mirror if I caused the split of a marriage. Talk to her, hug her and help her in any way you can.