I was wondering if it is okay to make out with a guy after giving him head. I have had many guys tell me that they think it is disgusting when a girl tries to kiss them after giving head, and they turn their heads away. Is mouthwash enough?
In all my 50 years no guy has said this to me. So this is either immature guys - or a new thing happening. If it is OK for your mouth to be on his penis - it should also be OK for your mouth to immediately be on his mouth. There is nothing unhygienic about either sexual activity so no mouth wash should be necessary.
I have met guys that don't care(even like it), and I know guys that think it is disgusting. These later guys in my opinion are immature as Susan said.
If he doesn't want to kiss you afterwords I would suggest suspending oral privileges.
Son Of A ..... (no login)
I heard this to...
October 8 2004, 10:59 PM
Ive heard about this also and i think it is completely stupid and probably is just immature guys in general as we are all a little like that... After being with my girlfriend where oral sex is performed i have no problem with kissing her after... but she did question me if i thought it was gross... but to tell you the truth i could'nt care less... so next time question the guy on why its gross or tell him to Get Lost!!!
but why should you have to wash you mouth as if you've done somthing dirty... cause its not... and if he won't kiss you after you've given him head cause its gross why should you have to be sucking it in the first place...
Yeah, I have a few friends that subscribe to this view. Quite honestly its usually just immaturity. I can garauntee you that most guys don't feel this way.
Anonymous (no login)
Re: To guys in general....
October 9 2004, 10:14 PM
Well i dont mind it when she kisses me after a blow but if i came in her mouth and then she wants to kiss me then it's too weird for me. Guess it's homophobia, right? To eat cum. Man..even typing it out sound bad.
The idea of getting ejaculate in my mouth is sortof sickening. I certainly expect the girl to wash her mouth out...and the same is true with myself. I don't kiss a girl after going down on her, I usually wait to see if she minds. Don't be offended, it's just something guys do.
Ken (no login)
Re: To guys in general....
October 11 2004, 12:00 AM
That's... stupid. I have no issues with this. Honestly it's not the most attractive thought in the world, but as Susan said if a woman is going to have my penis in her mouth and suck on it, then two things are given. 1)I'm NOT going to deny her a kiss because I think my own body is nasty (obviously she didn't), and 2)I'm damn sure going to return the favor and expect to be able to kiss her right after too. :)
Guy (no login)
I think.........
October 11 2004, 8:32 PM
it's ok. I don't really like it, but I can't imagine not kissing a girl just because she just gave me a BJ. If we think about it,(unless you're her first) this girl has blown other guys too. Possibly 100s? So what's the difference? How long should we wait to kiss? An hour, a day, a week? Did you know that DNA from everyone you've ever french kissed can be found in your mouth? That's wild. Makes a person want to be monogomous.
Guy
S (no login)
Yes
October 12 2004, 3:58 AM
Some guys don't mind it, some do.
I myself, don't mind it. Honestly, if my girlfriend is willing to put my penis in her mouth, I could atleast give her the respect to kiss her afterwards.