Lately me and my boyfriend have been having sex a lot and I have been with him over a year. We lost our virginity with each other and my mom recently put me on birth control about a month or 2 a go. The only troubles I am having with sex and confused about is when we have sex lately somewhere to the left inside of me kills me when we have sex. I was fingering myself to see where exactly it was and it feels like a rip of some sort inside of me and it's not going away. I am not sure what to do, I mean I am not bleeding or anything it's just in some positions when he puts it in and it touches that spot it hurts really bad, like a bad pain. It's not the whole inside the vagina, just on the corner. I am really confused did I mess something up. The only thing I can think of is how much we are having sex lately. All the time. Can you help me out???

What I think you really need to do is to be checked out by a doctor. It sounds like it is an abrassion inside your vagina. If this is what it is - I can tell you to do what the doctor will tell you to do. BUT it could be something else- and then what I tell you next won't help at all.

If it is an abrassion, you need to stop having vaginal sex for two weeks. The inside of the vagina usually heals quickly - so that should be enough time. Then when you do have sex you need to use a sexual lubricant. You need to buy a product created for sex - not just baby oil. Then the sex you have the first time needs to be gentle sex and try to avoid the spot that has been sore. IF you don't feel pain or get sore from sex this time - then you can start having sex where it used to be sore. If it doesn't hurt - then you are cured - if you are still sore -it either 1. is going to take longer to heal than 2 weeks, or 2. it is something different than an abrassion caused by sex.

I think the best lubricant is Eros silcone lubrication. It is a little more expensive, but it protects your skin the best, you need to use less of it, you rarely need to reapply it, it works with condoms and MOST sex toy,and it makes good sex great.

Let me know how it goes.
Susan

I checked your online store for Eros, but I think it is sold out.

Its sold thru both store --Condoms Express and Susan's Store - I get a small percentage from sales from either place - so if it is sold out in one- try the other.

Susan

Thanks a lot.


I told my boyfriend were taking a break for like 2 weeks so lets hope it heals. Thanks much.

Kristen

AND GO TO THE DOCTOR