I moved in to live with my cousin while attending college. I need a place to stay so my mom asked if I could stay with her. I knew her but wasn't close to her. We didn't really see each other often and she is about 2 years older. She is from my mom's side. And she was a girl and I'm a guy. She agreed since she was just using the second room for storage. Now we talked more to each other and she would help me with school. Anayways I recently noticed her doing strange things to me. At first it didn't seem strange but it happened quite a few times now.

Example: one time I was watching tv on the couch and she came from behind and put her arms around me asking if I wanted to go out and eat. Another time we were laying on the couch both being on opposite ends, and we were watching a movie. Her feet was touching my crotch area the whole time. I moved a lot to keep her feet away but couple minutes later her feet always touchws it again.

I noticed it started about 1 or 2 months ago after I accidently walk in on her while she was in the bathroom. She wasn't naked but she was in her underwear. I appoligized to her and she didn't seem all that mad. She just said that tell anyone what happened and that was that. Everything is normal except what I mentioned.

Is she just doing this because I walked in on her or does she like me. It's too embarrased to just go and talk to her about this. Is there a way to find this out?

My guess is that she feels comfortable and safe around you. She probably thinks of you more as a brother she gets along with.

I would not try to find out if her feelings mean more than that if you like your living situation. If she doesn't have feelings for you she will feel embarrassed and things will get ackward. If she does have feeling for you it will be very much the same AND if she does and you two decide to do something about it what happens when one of you isn't interested anymore? You have to move.

Think of yourself as sort of Will & Grace roommates. Very close, even affectionate, but not lovers.  If the time ever comes when you can risk moving out, and her behavior continues - it could be worth checking out, but not until then.

She could also just be a tease!

Stay cool and detached and act like her cousin.

Susan

What happen yesterday made me fell uncomfortable. This is what happened. She was going out with her friends to a club. Well she asked if I could go in her room for a minute. Once I got in, she was in her underwear. I started to walk back out but she said she needed my opinion on what to wear. She made me pick one of the two outfits she took out. I just quickly choose one and she told me to wait while she dresses. She then danced a little and asked me if she was revealing. This made me feel uncomfortable. Is she justing teaseing me like you said? If she is should I do it back? She usually goes out almost every saturday, I was thinking of fixing her shirt and saying that she is too revealing.

Woah dude thats a girl that feels comfortable with her foot on a guys crotch! XD
I think she may have bein fishing for a reaction there of some sort.

Mike,

You need to take a stand. If you are uncomfortable with her behavior - then walk out when you walk into her room and she is not wearing anything but her underwear.. You need to stop it - not encourage it.

Do not tease her or touch her if you want it to stop - it will only make her do it more.

Susan

My best friend from college use to do all that stuff to her guy room-mate, but he was like 10 years her senior. He didn't have a crush on her and they never messed around. But she would constantly walk around inher underwear and ask him what she looked good in. He never seemed to mind or get turned on. They were just very close.

I think she probably is a tease and likes getting a reaction out of you. I would be very careful though unless you know for sure of another place to live.