Is it normal for girls liking to hit, kick or squeeze guys' balls?
Let me tell you what my girl is doing. The first time was accidental. We were wreastling and she hit be in the balls it hurt a lot. She was just giggling after that. After that she just started to hit or kick me in the balls. Once we were at the movies and she slipped her hands down my jeans and started to squeeze my balls. I know that she is only playing but it hurts so much. Is this normal for girls?
Girls should not do this. If it hurts you need to tell her to stop and mean it. If she won't stop tell her you won't see her anymore.
What you are describing is abuse. There was a thread here a while back where some guys said girls were doing this a lot. I found it hard to believe.
Sex should not hurt unless you are one of the people who enjoy painful sex. If sex hurts and you don't want it to it is abuse.
Susan
Anonymous (no login)
Re: Is it normal?
December 13 2004, 9:24 PM
I can't tell her that I won't see her anymore because I know that I love her and she loves me. I know that she is only playing. After she kicks me she does massage it. Besides I told her this already and all we had was an argument. But we made up afterwards. I can't let her go she is the first.
Someone who loves you doesn't hurt you. I don't think you know what love is yet. You need to get out of a relationship when the person you are in a relationship with doesn't respect you. You deserve better and she needs to grow up and mature.
Susan
Gopal (no login)
Re: Is it normal?
December 21 2004, 12:47 PM
I knew a chick when I was 13 (she was 12) she was so stupid! Anyways she always tryed to trip me and and stuff so she could get attention. She was told that if a guy gets kicked in the nuts often enough the wont be able to have children... and well she dident want chilren shes only 12... I dont remember her succeeding in kicking me but she sure tryed very often
Clay (no login)
Re: Is it normal?
December 21 2004, 6:55 PM
I think girls who like to kick guys in the balls for fun should be placed in the same abusive category as men who beat their wives/girlfriends. It seems like they both do it to show thier partner that they have power over them. Like Susan said, sex should not be abusive. However, I doubt that they will be making any "battered male shelters" for men that have been viciously kicked in in balls, like the ones that they have for women in violent relationships.