Ok. I was just wondering if it's just me or does other guys do this too. My girl and I haven't have sex yet, but we did play with each other. She said she wanted to give me a handjob. She did for a long time but I didn't cum. She was disappointed. I told her that this isn't the way I masterbate. Whenever I masterbate, I put my penis in between my thighs and then squeezed them together and fantasized. This is how I do it. She thought that every guy masterbate by stroking his penis.
No you are not the only guy who masturbates like this. FAR FROM IT!
Hand jobs often do not turn out as wonderful as we imagine. Guys penis's get used to having it done a certain way and they want it done that way and no other way (sort of like a woman's clitoris). It can feel absolutely wonderful - but ejaculation just isn't going to happen.
So your job has to be to learn how to verbalize to her how wonderful it does feel. Help her fine tune what she does so it feels even better. And then most likely you have to finish off your self. Even the best of women (or men) at giving hand jobs often have to turn over the last few moments to the "owner".
Many girls who try just keep yanking on it too hard tensing their mate up, over stimulating him..... not realizing simply that nice and easy does it especially in the RIGHT spot (lubed).
Try it this way to see if you like it. I think it's dynamite. Other's can try it too for foreplay. Have a paper towel and tube of lube handy.
Form your finger and thumb of your writing hand into an "o" shape. Squeeze a little lube onto the inside edge of your finger and thumb.
( absolute must, do not do dry, it's just too sensitive) With your other hand, pull back your foreskin
( if equipped) at the base. If none, just hold the penis gently at the base.
Now, using your finger and thumb, grab your penis just under the head GENTLY and work up and down very easily about an inch, ocasionally bumping up against the rim of the glans (head) and then rising up over the edge of your glans. After a short while, start twisting your hand similar to unscrewing a bottle top, back and forth, up and down in various patterns about a half a circle. OHHHHHH man that's good ! I'm getting horny thinking about it. The head should swell up to a very large size just before you orgasm. Take your time for more pleasure...you may want to stop just short of orgasm several times before you finally explode. This, hopefully, will bring incredible pleasure for you. If it does, teach her how to do it.
Another tip is to take one or two V a l e r i a n R o o t capsules an hour before (available cheap at health stores), this adds even more tingle (pleasure) to it...have no idea why. It must somehow improve circulation....100% natural ingredients.
Everything looks different this morning...had to check my glasses. Looks good, Susan.
I never see any response to my suggestion on
V a l e r i a n R o o t, a supposed sleep inducer..
I think either people are unaware of how well it works or there is just 2 of us on earth that react in a positive way. My friend noticed reaction in 30-45 minutes...a tingling, pleasurable experience leading to an erection. and he wasn't thinking about it.
I checked the other day.... he still likes it. Being age 73, he now uses it with Viagra for intercourse....not possible normally.
So, is there anyone else that tried it?
I think people do try it, but forget to report back or forget which post talked about it..it does take time to evaluate any sex enhancer and we all react differently.
Whewwwwwww! What a relief...I thought my eyes were going...that would have been the 2nd thing that went!
Maybe size does matter....with fonts!
I'm glad you're going to try VR. It may work different, maybe even better with a woman...especially a sexually responsive woman. I don't know any woman close enough to ask them...or I'd ask them and get back to everybody. I hate to have you spend money if you or he doesn't have it and then find out it's not what you thought.
It certainly isn't earthshaking, but more like gentle. If nothing else, you can actually use it help to put you to sleep a night you're up and can't settle down. Only around 6 bucks.
The instructions say take up to 6 capsules....I take only one or two cause I'm sensitive to meds.
Another idea is that it lowers inhibitions like alcohol does, or just plain relaxes a person...it does seem to work better at bedtime...and I do sleep well with it. I think it's better with a little food. I notice absolutely no side effects.