ok im 15 and ive had sex with my bf for the first time about 3 months ago. there wasnt any blood. we have had sex several times since then until before christmas when we hadnt used protection and i didnt have my period. i got very worried that i might be pregnant so i did the test and it was negative. was a little relieved by that but still worried. i didnt know what to do so i just waited. anyway i had my next period on the day i was supposed to have it so first question is why did i miss my period?

my next period isnt until the 18th but i had some blood today, 7 days earlier, (blood color is dark red/brown)
so could it be some of the blood from my missed period?
my bf was at my place today and he fingered me pretty deep, could it be my cherry thing?
or could it be just an early period?
<sry for dblepost>

Mar,

Here's a couple of facts you need to know.....

All women do not bleed when they first have sex. They only bleed if their hymens (cherry) have not torn. Women's hymen's can tear from bike riding, gymnastics, horse back riding, falling onto a branch while tree climbing, using tampons, and a multitude of things.

Teenage women often naturally miss menstrual periods. Especially if they are under stress. SO missing one period does not mean you are always pregnant.

Bleeding after sex can be from a variety of reasons.

There can be a little bit of blood left in the creases of your vagina- and this blood would be more brown than red.

It can be a little bit of blood that is ready for a menstural period that is coming soon - then it will be bright red and possibly stringy or chunky. 

It can be from an injury to the inside of your vagina. If the injury is mild it should stop very soon and the blood will be very bright red. If the bleeding does not stop in 3-4 hours and you are not expecting a menstrual period soon - you need ot go to a doctor.

So my guess is you have nothing to worry about.

I hope you are now using protection. Statistically, over 90% of girls under 16 get  pregnant during the first six months they have unprotected sex. For some girls they might be lucky and it is the 20th time they had sex after 5 1/2 months, but for others it will be the 1st time, and for others it will be the 5th time in the 2nd month. Be careful - unless you want to be pregnant.

Susan

 

ok so the blood hasnt stopped so i guess its just my period. bloods color is kind of more redish today.
thanx alot anyway i was just worried that it might be something else