few questions

sometimes, but not all the time, when i have an erection, it hurts. itz like my skil is stretching. and it hurts. like someone is pulling my skin apart. is this normal?

when i was having sex the other day, my partner said that it hurt and she couldn't feel any pleasure. what am i doing wrong? it's her second time and she said sex only gives her a litte pleasure and alot more pain.

The solution to both of your problems might be lubrication. Your skin will feel stretchier with lubrication. Your skin and her will slip and slide alongside each other more with lurbication.

For her the solution could also be a lot more foreplay. When a woman is not aroused sex will hurt because her body is not ready for sex yet. 20 minutes of foresplay - kissing, touching, fingering, oral sex is ussally needed at a minimum.

 If she has only had sex 2 times - for a lot of women the first few times hurt.

Susan

 

As far as your skin feeking tight like it is about to rip you may be one of the many guys that was circumcised TIGHT !!!! The doctors may have trimed off a bit to much. When erect is your skin stretched tight as a drum?
If you do a internet search under foreskin restoration you should be able to find a number of ways to loosen the skin up a bit. It is also often claimed that a looser skin will provide more comfort for the woman also.

Good luck
Marc

Marc,

You are absolutely right. I overlooked that possibility.

Too short circumcision is a distinct possibility - or too tight foreskin. 

Too tight foreskin can often be improved by simply stretching with your fingers after using lots of lubrication. It will take a few months. It can also be improved by what is called a dorsal cut - a timy cut that loosen the foreskin,but does not eliminate it.

A too short circumcision can be imporved my lots of lengthy procedure men do who regret being circumcised. But a doctor can also do a bit of palstic surgery and attach a ring of skin to length en your foreskin.

Susan

Okay, one more responce and it is off to bed for me, honest.

I had a girlfriend who expressed that she had pain with sex. She was anxious more than anything. It could be a combination of newness to it and anxiety. She could hold herself in such a way that by tightening up, it creates more pelvic pain than it should. Well, it should become pleasurable after a while but......

One thing is to do as Susan mentioned. More foreplay! Sometimes I think foreplay for men before sex is what the hand does as it slides from their neck down to their breasts on their way down to unbotton their button-fly jeans. Fro women, they just need more time. It is amazing just what a turn on it can be to pleasure a woman without penetration! Consider this before full intercourse. Think about one of her best poinst of stimulation; the clitoris. Ah yes!

Then, when she has reached hights of pleasure, I am sure that intercourse will be easier and much more pleaurable for her. As for you my man, you either have grown too fast, or have too tight skin! Good luck! One way to know if it is anxiety that is ruling your girl, try zooming into sex, then try going real slow and see if there is a difference. Having her fill out a survey in triplicate to find out how each session compared will be just the cherry to top it all off afterwards (that was a joke!).

When erect my skin pulls really tight also and can be pretty uncomfortable especially the long-term erections. Oow.

I'm sure this is common for circumsized people.

Nick