Hello Susan,

To get wright to the point: Lately i have this new personel hype going on. Its like this: when i see a girls ass, i just need to smack it! It gives me so much pleasure in doing it. God i love it!

I have done it 6 times now on 5 different girls of my age and who i know. One asked me to do it (no kidding), two were upset when i did it, another was upset when i did it the second time (she laught first) and one even said "thank you" to me.

I think i'm getting in the zone. My goal is to smack a girls ass everyday if possible. I even did it this morning :D.

I think i'm actually going to wright a quide on how to do this the wright way. I'll put it on the net. You can find tips and such like; That the best time to do it when a girl weres soft pants so that you can actually feel her soft ass (because when she weres jeans you only will feel a hard ass), that you must pick girls out with big asses because theres simpley more of it and that you have to pick the wright moment so that you won't get in to trouble. If only to show an example...

My question is what girls (and guys) think about it?
And do you know who else does this and how there stand is?

Bjorn,

I am going to tell you the same thing I told ball buster. What you are doing is sexual abuse - perhaps not as bad as what she is doing, but no less criminal. If you do this and someone decides they don't like it enough and decide to call the police - as they would have every rigfht to - you would be in trouble.

Smacking girls in the ass is a control issue. Sexual abuse is about control. You need to stop right away or get counseling. This could lead to very serious consequences for you if you smack girlsd who do not consent. You need to find girls who are turned on by this - not just pick a girl a day.

Susan

Your wright Susan. This thing can get me into trouble or at least brake my friendship with those girls and i don't want that. I'm a nice guy.

but like i said i find so much pleasure in doing it. Perhaps i do need to find someone who likes it. But how can i find such a person. Do i just ask her if she likes it to be smacked in the ass?.. I think not.

This day a friend (girl) of a girl off who'm i smacked her ass found out that i did that to her and she thouht it was funny :D

Good to see you here again Bjorn. I don't think that smacking every girl's ass that you meet is a good idea, even if they like it. They could charge you for sexual assault. In my area, there was this 20 year old dude that went up to women (about 15 of them) and groped them (grabbed their breasts and ass I think) and then ran off. He was recently caught and now is charged for the offenses. It just isn't worth it. Find girls that like being spanked and have fun with them.

Spanking is a mild form of sado masichism - so go hang out where the S&M crowd does. Or join spanking fetish groups online. You might be surprised how many girls actually enjoy it. I am surprised.

Susan

I suppose just about anything if done lightly can be enjoyable, including spanking. Consider this, when a child misbehaves, some parents spank thier child (with some force) as a form of punishment and the child (hopefully) learns not to misbehave. Now, what if the parent spanks their children lightly and the children like it, is it possible that the children will like being spanked when they are older?

I know that children who are abused often grow up and abuse their own children, but I'm wondering if it can work with positive experiences too.

When do children enjoy being spanked? I just can't imagine such a situation.

People abuse their children when they have been abused because they learned how to parent from their abusive parents.

Susan

Hey-
Just to let you know that if someone smacked me in the ass like yourself, I'd smack you in your face then kick ya in the groin. Not a good idea brightboy. Your asking for a whole lot of trouble, everything from being hit back, boyfriends of the girls you smacked hunting you down and kicking your butt, to angry parents to police encounters. I'd find another way to "get off." Don't be dumb. Just an opinion from a girl with a GREAT booty.

hey apurplethong

If i saw this message earlier i would have answered already, but don't sweat.

When you say that you have a great booty, it just makes me wanna slap you in the ass. God damn!

But hey, i can relate to you. But sometimes things aren't the way, they supposed to be.

By the way: My nutz are made from steel. So a groin kick isn't an option :D

Susan I hope you don't edit what iam about to say. Well Ms. Purplethong the way you talk about having a great ass just invites people to disrespect you. I wish Bjorn would smack your ass,what are you going to do about it? Nothing because i am sure you would enjoy it.

Babe - I am not going to edit it - because you demonstrate a very BIG problem. Sexual abuse is never OK, is never invited. I don't care what a person does it is no excuse for anyone to do anything like smack a person's ass without asking first. When a person says no/ pr sn't asked - that means no - no matter what they are wearing or what you think they might want. Susan

hey babe

Your absoluteley wright. apurplethong is actually provoking it by saying she has a great booty. And i'm serious. I know it isn't wright of me, but hey come on. I'm young and their is testosteron running trough my body as i speak. Lately i don't do this often. The last time was about a week and half ago and she and her friends really had to laugh. They didn't mind it at all. There was one girl were i did a second time and she asked me to stop and so i did. I leaved her alone. But i just find it so strange about how she (and other girls) acts. For example: When i saw her this day i thought she was wearing her gym outfit. She had panties on with over it mini-joggingpants, that didn't go further then her hips. And that were her actuall clothes for the day.

I remember a debate wich i once attended. The debateleader (a girl) talked about who was responsible for girls getting harrased. We all agreed (guys and girls alike) that is was namely the guys fault, but also the girls for provoking it. by wearing for example mini skirts and other things.

The girls i did it too who were upset did infact saw the fun in it afterwards. Because they know i'm a good guy.
And perhaps does apurplethong actually likes (afterwards or during). Who knows.

Trouble is Bjorn is that guys who think girls deserve what they get when they dress sexy often go so far as to think rape is asked for by sexy dress. The bottom line is - act like an adult. Men still have brains - their cocks do not control their behavior.

Susan

I agree with Susan. I don't think that girls should be held responsible for the actions of men that sexually abuse them. Girls are free to dress how they chose to and guys shouldn't think that a girl is trying to provoke them by dressing in skimpy outfits.

I actually get turned off by girls that dress trashy, but I suppose I'm a little 'different' than other guys. One thing that really turns me off is when fat ugly girls wear skimpy clothes that just shows off their excess fat. Ugh, that's a scary sight.

I think girls that look good should feel free to dress nicely, but not too provocatively so that they don't unwittingly send the wrong message to guys that can't control their hormones.

Hi......
I believe there are a few girls who might take exception to you calling them "fat and ugly". How about slightly overweight or less than pretty?
Some of the smartest, nicest, kindest and sweetest girls I ever met were a little overweight and not exactly pretty.
Don't be so hasty to judge. What if the girl you marry gains 100 lbs and gets a double chin? Are you going to hate her? Of course not....because you love her regardless, in sickness and in health, etc.....I hope!
I'm surprised that Susan didn't edit this.
Gregorio

Gregorio,

You are absolutely right- I should not have posted that message. I didn't post another of Clay's posts today because of his atttude toward larger people. Nearly half of the posts Clay writes has something offensive in it. I am really at my wits end.
Susan

I'm sorry Susan and Gregorio about the fat and ugly remark. I should have said obese and unnatractive as Gregorio suggested. I didn't mean any offense to any overweight people.


But that's the point Clay - it is offensive. And it doesn't matter how many times you are told - you offend over and over again. Why not try reading your posts outloud and imagine someone is sayng them to you.

BTW obese and unattractive isn't much better. Ever hear the phrase "big and beautiful"?

Or that there is so much more to love?

Gregorio I don't think that susan edited Clay's oppinion post because what he said made sense. Some people just can't wear certain clothes. I don't think he meant to put down heavy people> Just the heavy people that are wearing clothes that don't suit their physique. This is just our oppinion.

Thank you Belinda. I never meant any disrespect to overweight or unnatractive people, but somehow, Susan usually says that my posts are offensive and deletes them . I was just trying to point out (as you did) that people should wear clothes to suit their body figure.