Susan me and my last girlfriend did all the time and i never had a problem! i would go for a good 5-6 minutes and we both enjoyed it! but with my new girlfriend we have done it maybe 8 or 9 times and everytime as soon as we start i start going and like after 1 minute im ready and i start to go! do you have any advice on what i can do to go a lot longer! i would love to go longer cuz most of the time i dont even get to the point to give her and orgasim!

Couple things could be going on - you are more excited by her and/ or she is tighter - so you ejaculate quicker. You are older and so you are aging naturally.

What can you do?  More foreplay - so she is closer to orgasm. Have orgasms other ways.  Or exercise.

Exercise you pc muscles. Do kegels. 

When you pee - stop peeing count to 10 - start to pee again - stop count to 10 - start again - do this as often as you can.

Do penis push-ups. Flex your penis so it goes up and down. When you get good at it- put a piece of cloth over the top. Get good at that - wet the cloth so it is heavier.

1-2 minutes isn't really so bad - before you were doing really well - now you are just OK. So part of you is just going to have to get used to it.

Susan

Hey,

Check out this thread where I wrote down some tips for another person:

http://www.network54.com/Forum/thread?forumid=100523&messageid=1110339540

Hope that helps!

- Mike