hello susan....been a while since I posted a question...but I'm again wondering something....if you haven't guessed it's about foreskins :P

growing up in a north american society, I've never seen one first hand...few in porn or in pics, but it just isn't common here. My bf is europiean though, thus he is fully intact.

I'm courious about it...and am afraid I'll hurt him....how stretchy is it? does it add any more pleasure? is there certain spots that are more sensitve then others? should I pay attention to it in foreplay or just move it out of the way? do condoms feel comfortable with it? can I pull on it or would that cause pain?

I have a feeling I should be asking him most of these questions...but I really don't want to come off as that nieve....

I will be meeting him in a few months...and I really don't want to hurt him at all...any help would be great ^_^

elf_girl

You can't really hurt his foreskin - its there for protection. It'sskin - so it doesn't really stretch - it is just what is underneath it that changes. YOu can pull it gently without harming it.

I love to play with foreskin. Pull it over the head then slide it back. Put tiny pieces of ice or chocolate or other stuff underneath it and suck it out.

Condoms are fine with it.

A cock with foreskin is so much fun! They are designed for play! Just explore and play and you will do fine. Much easier to play with than men without.

Susan

My favorite method.....have a tissue or two handy.
If you want him to feel incredible pleasure, you want to pull the foreskin back all the way gently with one hand, holding the penis at the base and using your other thumb and forefinger formed in an "O", work up and down about an inch just under the head . (You are actually working on the "backside" of the foreskin where all the sensitive nerves are). Be sure to use a little lube; NEVER do it dry. If dry, you could hurt him.
If you start twisting your fingers back and forth 180 degrees slowly and then diagonally up over the rim (similar to unscrewing a bottle), but returning to back and forth, he will gasp in pleasure; you will feel his penis throbbing and growing bigger and it will boil over soon in a very strong orgasm. If you want it to last longer, move your fingers slower. You could try building it up several times slowly....he will be girating with pleasure. He will never forget it.

Having the foreskin intact (as I do) is actually better than having it removed, as is commonly done for religious/health reasons. Just make sure that your boyfriend washes under his foreskin when he bathes so that germs don't build up there.

The foreskin was designed (by nature) to protect the sensitivity of the penis head. When it is circumcized, the penis head is exposed and it constantly rubs up against the underwear causing a loss in sensitivity and possibly a reduction in orgasms. Wearing women's underwear might help with this, since it is softer than men's underwear (the nylon/rayon kinds).

thanks susan...that's good to know

so it's just skin? is there any more nerve ending in it? or is it just there to give the head abit more sensitivity?

The foreskin itself has no more nerves than skin does (which is a lot)- but the connective tissue between the foreskin and the penis has tons of it - and this is partly what is cut away during a circumcision.

I agree! I love that my hubby has his foreskin. I hear alot of woman and men make fun of uncircumcised men. They say it looks funny with skin. But thats the way our creator made men. And thank God, because that penus with foreskin is the most pleasureable thing in the world. I wouldn't have it any other way. Another thing, its sexy to look at. Turns me on. And just like Susan mentioned, its very fun to play with. Sometimes were just watching a movie and i reach over to play with the skin. Its like a toy. I also like to chew on it. Really softly of course. LOL! So yummy to men with foreskin! I hope i didnt get to personal about this matter, and I hope i didnt offend those that are circumcised. Sorry if i did. Its just my personal preference.

thanks Gregorio...I'll have to keep that in mind :P

have any other tricks I could try?

hehe...yummy huh?

I do have to say...no that I've been looking into the foreskin and such...I think a penis looks more natural with it...more beautiful...I always thought a penis was one of the uglyist things on a guy...until I started looking at them uncut...*shrugs* guess it's just a personal prefference

sorry to all the cut guys out there... :o

You could try rubbing the top of his foreskin with your fingers. This will stimulate the top of his penis head. You do it kind of like how women masterbate their clitoris. This is the best way for me and produces mind blowing orgasms.

Keep tissues handy......
If you look close at a penis, you will see a brown line that leads thru the scrotum right up thru the foreskin to the head. This is the main NERVE that telegraphs pleasure to the brain.
It is very, very sensitive right as it passes thru the foreskin. Using the same technique in holding back the foreskin, find that brown line as it folds in the foreskin, and using a LUBED finger of the other hand, start making small circles, slightly dragging the skin.( it will feel like a small bump) Start making these circles bigger and up over the rim as he starts getting aroused. Keep returning to that bump and rubbing gently. You can even make circles the opposite way and then come back. You will hear him gasping in pleasure and he will get aroused very fast.... it may be all he can handle. He will want to know what you are doing cause it feels so good.
The trick is the lube...use plenty. You can also mix these 2 methods. (Do not use pre-cum for lube as it will dry out...get some good stuff like Susan sells.) Come back here so I know how these tips work for you. Maybe you can give us some ideas.

I know that susan swears by eros, but there are many different kinds on the site here....and I'm not really sure what one is right for me I guess...*shrugs*

I've never bought lube, or any sex related stuff before....so I'm abit uneducated in that respect....

the thing i'm wondering the most is can I buy the cheapest kind of eros on there or should I be looking for what meets my needs...

Eros and other lubes come in water based, silcone based, thick, and women's. There are also things that aren't really lubes that people use that are petroleum based - like some hand creams, vaseline, etc. `

If you use condoms you can NOT use petroleum based lubrication. (The condoms disintegrate.)

For Eros
Water-based absorbs into the skin and is easy to wash off.
Women's formula is quickly absorbed and is mostly to moisturize and replace the lubrication that makes you comfortable day-to-day.
Extra thick is for sex where there is lots of activity.(anal sex)
Classic formula is slow to be absorbed-harder to wash off, but stainless.

All is pretty tasteless - so good when you are going to also have oral sex.

Buy the best you can afford. The silicone lube you need less of than the others so it lasts longer.

Susan

I have lavander massage oil from the body shop. I use it to massage my legs so I can walk without too much pain.

can that be used? or should I just leave it for massages?

Nothing with perfume in it should ever used as lube.