My husband enjoys giving me anal sex. I detest it. When I was dating him we use to have anal sex, now that were married I always tell him no. He respects me about not wanting to do it, but I don't think Im being fair to him. I would like to please him in this way, is there a way for me to feel comfortable to do it again?

Belinda,

I used to like it too, but no longer. I think maybe our bodies change. But the way you might enjoy it i to use a really good quality lube that is silicone based. Anal sex needs twice as much lube as you think it does. If you think you have enough- you need more.I use Eros and would not use anything else. I sell it on my website. Not cheap, but you need less than the other kind, it lasts a lot longer, and it is GREAT as a skin moisturizer.

Susan

I love using my dildo when I masterbate. The prostate massage feels wonderful. My favourite position when using it for anal stimulation is kind of like a headstand. I think it is called the 'pile-driver' in porno films. You have to be somewhat flexible or you can hurt your neck. Doggy style works pretty good too.