whats up susan have not spoke to you in a while...have a concern, my girlfreind does not seem like she is interested in sex that much anymore...i ask her about sex alot because i want it...she keeps coming up with lame excuses like mabe tomorrow or headaches or she is just tired we have been together going on 4 years and i still get aroused by being in the same room as her...i guess also i dont want to become one of those couples that has sex like once every month or planned sex... also i cant get her anymore to be romantic anymore...it feels like when we do have sex its just like she is tired of me asking and she wants to get it over with...i mean this is a strong change from going from having excellent sex life to having none...i am at the point where i am confused as hell whats going on... please help your boy out please...

Pete,

ASK HER!!!!

Obviously the sex isn't to her whatit used to be. SHe needs something different - find out what it is. Great sex does not get boring - so it must not be as great to her as it is to you. Maybe you have changed withou even noticing?

Susan

Maybe you should focus on her needs more Pete, when you are having sex. It's possible that she doesn't get the same pleasure as you do from sex. Try more foreplay before sex to get her in the mood and more likely to have orgasms.

Comunication my friend.......... comunication.... You must talk to her in order to know what in her mind.... even then its a hassel.... WOMAN.....