I have a problem. I've been with my girl for awhile now and we love each other. On Friday we decided to have sex for the first time. One of her friend told her that we should try doggystyle since she will feel it best. We tried it but didn't really get it. This is the problem. We are kind of big. She has a big butt. So I can't really get my penis in. Also my penis is small. It is about 3-4 inches long and full erection. She doesn't care about my size but we want to have a sexual relationship. Do you have any suggestions?

That is the best position given your sizes. She needs to push her butt up in the air higher and maybe raise her torso up with a pillow. You may also want to use a cock ring - it will help your erection be longer and stronger. My lover like the ones I sell on my website best of all we have tried.

Susan

Thanks for the help. When you say push her butt higher, do you mean putting her legs closer together? Can you be more specific. Also where on your website can I buy the cock ring? Also is there any other positions that we can try, and how because of our size. For example, should I be on top because I am smaller than her?

No, just the reverse. She needs her legs wide apart so you can get in. She needs to push her butt up by curving her back.

Because you ar smaller and she is bigger any position where she is on the botton are going to be hard unless she is very limber. If she can get her legs over your shoulders - that would be a great position for you. Then you are not really on top - jut between her legs.

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Susan

Nothing against doggy style, except it might be uncomfortable for her especially if you plan to thrust hard, and I prefer face to face.
I personally feel from experience that you really shouldn't have much trouble doing it missionary style.....( that is: her on bottom , you on top).. that allows you to arch your back to get your penis to stick out more.(which you need) If it is still a problem, a pillow under her butt will elevate her vagina. You can then penetrate suspended on your hands and knees which makes your penis bigger and you can take longer strokes. (You do not necessarily have to put any weight on her stomach unless she says it's okay.)
In this position, you can also move quickly to your elbows to massage her breasts, if so desired, and still keep a good deal of your weight off her or move back to your hands for the incredible climax.
After you know you can penetrate either way, don't forget to warm her up well before you penetrate. Play safe.
Gregorio