Susan i tried the letting yourself go when you have sex. You know to pee at the same time you reach orgasm and it just doesn't happen no matter how hard i push.
Also during and after sex it hurt the deeper he penetrated me. Way deep inside it felt painful. He wasn't going fast or hard. This happens more frequently now.
It is not so much pushing hard that you have to do - but to relax and push into the orgasm. It psychological because we are taught to hold our pee. Try putting a towel on a bed, masturbate and pee. Get comfortable with peeing on the bed.
Susan this is an odd question. But here goes. My husband wants to know if he urinates in my vaginal can it be unhealthy for me. Im pretty sure that men can control urinating when they have sex.
Men can't pee and ejaculate at the same time - so this usually doesn't happen. If he does, it can't hurt you. Urine is sterile. You can drink it without hurting you.
I just figured out why it hurts me when i have sex sometimes, by looking at one of your old posts of 2001. Its because my body hasnt become aroused yet. When we foreplay i dont hurt. But when he just gets on top of me and enters me i hurt.
Women NEED foreplay. It is not just to get in the mood, it is to give the vagina time to lubricate, elongate, and become responsive. I CANNOT orgasm from penetrative sex if I have not had other orgasms first -doesn't matter how much I want it - it just ain't gonna happen.