I'm back Susan. I think my cousin is pretty and I masterbate thinking about her is that wrong? I know that having sex with a family member is wrong but is thinking about her is?

She was over last week to check out a college in town. She stayed in my room and I slept on the couch. For the past couple days I've been masterbating more than usual. I think she is really good looking. She is very athletic too so she always just wear shorts and a sport bra. One time we were watching a movie in the living room and I kept having a hardon. I tried to hide by covering it with my hands. I kind of rubbed it a little too to try and soften it. The reason was maybe because she was sitting right next to me. She would asked how I was doing putting her arm around me. I kept on going to the bathroom to masterbate. Do you think she noticed.

I think her butt looks good too. She was working out with one of those rolling things for her abs. I was behind her and I pretend that I was atching tv but really I was looking at her but going up and down. I could actually see her underwear.

She went home yesterday. Am I weird to think like this about my cousin?

PS. She forgot an underwear. I found it on my bed under the blanket. I was masterbating with it last night. Is it ok if i keep it?

Ted

I think most everyone has some sexual feeling about relatives. There is nothing wrong with having the sexual feelings - and not that you can control your feelings anyway. The only thing you can control is your behavior.

With your cousin my guess is one of two things is going on. 1. She thinks you are too young to be having sexual feelings so she doesn't even think that her behavior in front of you in a bit inappropriate. 2. She knows exactly what she is doing and she is getting off on turning you on.

Next time your cousn visits, I think you should think about sleeping in separate rooms. When she exercises, I think you need to ask her to move so you can watch TV or go do something else. I say this because it is going to get really frustrating for you if you do not do this. It will get harder to just fantasize and masturbate. SO you need to help yourself to stop thinking of her this way, And the first thing that will help is to give the underwear she left behind to your mom and let her handle what to do with them.

There is nothing wrong in what you are doing - it just will frustrate you more and more as time goes on - so it is easier to try to stop it now.

Susan

So you're saying she is getting off because of me?

By the way we did sleep in different rooms. I slept in the livng room.



Ted- No, I am saying that is ONE possibility. There are others. Susan

I agree with Susan Teddy. Fantasizing about your cousin is one thing, but if she comes over again and sleeps in your bed again, you might actually want to lie down with her, and that might be the start of an incestuous relationship. And trust me, you don't want to have a sexual relationship with your cousin.

My advise to you is just enjoy her company, be friends with her, but stop fantasizing about her. There are plenty of eligible girls out there for you.