Posted by Steve

"I'm a 19 year old lesbian and I've been with my girl friend for 6 months, were really into eachother and care about eachother more than anything. She recently just told mE that she has cheated on every single
oNe of her ex boy friends in the past and has never been faithful, this scared mE a bit. But she told mE she would never be able to cheat on mE, she cares too much. She is an exotic dancer so when she goes to work I worry about her, she came home the other night and we started to get
intimate, I put a finger in her vagina and it wasn't normally as tight as it usually is, but as I stuck my finger all the way up it felt very hollow, there was like a big hole inside of her.. As if something else had just been in there... (Make sense?) this is I'd say like the second time it has happened. I asked her about it and she says all she can think about is it might have to do with having just gotten off of her period.. Please any answers would help, I need to know... Thank you so much..."

Should the girl be concerned that her lover is cheating on her, because her vagina was stretched out? Since she is a stripper, my guess is that some guy paid her to have sex with him at the club. I suppose a large dildo could have done the same thing

Women's bodies change from day to day. What it feels like inside is no indication as to what she is doing or not doing.

What the real problem is is trust. If you can not trust the partner you have you do not have a good relationship. Doesn't matter if she is lying or telling the truth- there is no trust.

Susan

Oh, and anothr thing... she would have had to have sex just before she came home, because a vagina returns to normal size in about 15-20 minutes after sex.

Thank you for clearing that up Susan. I posted this message, because I was curious if the vagina stays stretched out for a long period of time after sex, but as you said, only about 15-20 min.

Susan what about women who have sex constantly or abuse their pussy by entering huge objects (dildos, etc)? I once saw this porn and this lady’s vagina was huge, I honestly don’t know how she still feels pleasure. It took her a while to feel anything because the man kept pounding her and he was big-about 9 inches and she laid there as she felt nothing until she finally cummed. If the vagina returns to normal size in about 15-20 minutes after sex why was her pussy that big? As soon as the porn started she already looked as if she had sex. But I think if a woman have sex so often and takes huge ones each time, her pussy is bound to remain opened. Same goes to anal sex. I hope I’m making sense lol. But then again I'm a clueless virgin.

Some women have bigger vaginas.

This can be from a variety of reasons. Women may have had surgery that causes their vaginas to change in size. Women who have children often find their vaginas get larger after each baby they give birth to vaginally. Women who start having sex at a very early age may have larger vaginas as they forced their bodies to do what their bodies were not ready for (and their muscles were compromised.)Women who have been sexually abused may have had their muscles harmed.

In this situation, what I suspect is that this women has been having sex for some time. What looks likes minutes of sex onefilm is actually hours and hours of retakes.

This is what I HATE about porn. What most of it is is unrealistic. Inexperienced young people look at porn and think that is the way it is supposed to be. Real sex between two people who are passionate about each other is better than any sex you will see in porn.

I heard that some producers make 'real-porn', in which they get ordinary couples to have ordinary sex. I once watched a clip of this and honestly, I didn't like it, because it wasn't the least bit entertaining. I think people watch porn to be sexually entertained, like going to a strip-club. I prefer watching porn stars having sex than 'Joe Shmo' trying his best to have sex. I'm sure there are sex-ed videos for people who want a more realistic depiction of sex.

You want to be entertained. And if that was where things ended I'd be OK with it, but then guys want the women they are with to do the stuff they saw or they expect their bodies to do the same things done with trick photography.

I have no problem with adults looking at porn who know what they see if performance and is not what people can actually do with each other.