hi susan im a 15 year old guy and i need help. i masterbate atleast once daily. It just isnt the same anymore. i want to get some sort of sex toy but i dont know where to get one since im underage and i dont know what kind please help me.

The only way you can buy a sex toy is over the internet. SO unless you have a credit card or Paypal you are out of luck.

There are not really a lot of sex toys for men. Most straight guys don't use them. If men use sex toys, if is usually for anal stimulation - vibrators designed for women or butt plugs.

There tubes made out of different materials that men insert their penis into. Blow-up plastic(sort of like a mini version of a bike tire inner-tube), silicone, or rubber. Some are shaped at one end like like the entrance to a vagina or an anus.

But at 15 you should not be bored with your hands. You will be using your hands to masturbate all of your life. My guess is you are not really bored - you are just expecting too much out of the experience and you are doing it exactly the same way every day.

Doing it the same way every day is actually exactly what most people do do. They figure out how to have sensations the way they want them and they do it until they perfect a method. They try different lubrications- different amounts. They try different speeds of touch fast slow. They try different intensensities of touch hard soft.

So my advice is to forget th sex toys and learn to do it with your hands better.

It is said that straight men also use dildos while masturbating. How can they possibly be considered straight if they are putting a toy up their anal? I believe that’s considered gay. Sooner or later they will want to experience the real penetration, the real thing and they will go for a man. If not craving the real thing, he is still gay to me. I know that some men have women use strap-ons on them. That’s gay to me because they are imagining the cock is a man’s cock. I think if a man does that he should be considered bi-curious. If they took their sweet time to buy a dildo they are really into it enough. I don’t care if it “feels really good” or because it “gets them off faster” it’s still gay. I asked my friend if he would ever use a strap-on and he said yes, as soon as I called him bi he was offended. I told him straightforward that to me it’s considered gay and he was surprised. His only response was a lot of men do it. And!?! If many men jump over a bridge will he do it too? Of course not~Anyway, I’ve heard men say that they would let another man give them a blowjob but they wouldn't return the favor because they are not gay. If a man is receiving oral sex from a man, mind as well suck him off too because he's already performing a gay act. What’s your input on this Susan?

Rita,

You are confused about the difference between being gay or bisexual and anal sex.

Gay men see another man and they can feel a sexual attraction to him.
Bisexual men see another man OR women and they can feel a sexual attraction to them.

Some gay and bisexual men additionally can feel romantic feelings about men.

Anal sex- whether it is masturbation, with strap-on, or even with the same sex is just that - anal sex. Having any of it - even having anal sex doe not make you gay. Enjoying it doe not make you gay. Your body has certain nerves and if they are touched - they feel good. Your body as no way to tell the difference between whether who is touching you is male, female, real, or plastic.

One of the most incredible sensations a man can feel is to have his prostate massaged. This is done by inserting a finger into the anus and reaching far enough in to feel the prostate. Women do his to men who want them to have the most incredible sensation they can imagine. This is not gay sex. It is just a form of anal sex.

Now I have to ask you are you equally offended by oral sex performd by men on women? Oral sex is the way women have sex with each other. They also finger each oher. So does that mean when a woman enjoys oral sex or being fingered she is gay?

Sex is about nerves. Touch the right nerve - it feels good.
Sexual attraction is about the brain sending your body messages.
The brain can also send a message to the body to stop paying attention to what your body's nerves are feeling.

You need to think through these ideas you have. When you add the up- the just don't make sense.

Susan

I think Rita is a little confused with the difference between being gay and enjoying anal sex. I consider myself a bisexual, since I have been with both men and women, though I like women better. Straight guys could use a dildo (like Clay did) for extra stimulation, because the prostate massage causes very-powerful orgasms in men.

I also like masterbating with my dildo from time to time. It makes me 'shoot' alot stronger too. I think if a guy is attracted to or has any kind of sex with another guy, then he is either gay or bisexual.

Ok it all makes sense now. I def. agree. Alright thnx for the info.