Is there anything I can do if my girl is too loose. The other day I had sex with my girl for the first time. It was our first together even though we're both not virgins. To me she is too loose. I can get an erection but she doesn't really feel it. And I cant really feel it either. We haven't orgasm at all. My erection was long but I didn't come. I asked if she would do anal but she refused and I don't want to forced her.
But know that she might still not have orgasms from vaginal sex. Lots of women don't. And it has nothing to do with whether they are loose are not. The best way for a woman to orgasm is through oral sex, and some women (and I include myself) can have vaginal orgasms after having many clitoral orgasms, but never if the vaginal sex is first.
Kegel exercises: pee, stop peeing, count to 10, pee abit, stop, count to 10 - do this as long as it takes. When holding it to 10 is easy go to 15, 20, 30 +
Exactly the muscles you tense up not to pee - tense up when you are doing something- like driving - tense your vaginal muscles in times with the music on the radio or a cd.
Masturbated with a dildo. Try as hard as you can to push the dildo out and then when you push it back in push it out again. Use the biggest dildo you can use comfortably.
If you do kegels they will make you stronger, but no thicker which seems like what you are hoping for. Get into oral sex - both of you - and the size of either of you won't matter.